"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Big Eee Zee

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sorry guys, i cant take the amount of trolls, people who wont take help, whiners etc on this board. I think im outta here. Maybe for good, maybe just for a long while.

If i helped you, good, thats what i meant to do. If i didnt, sorry, i tried. and if I didnt know you, then you just came too late.

take it easy guys, and remember, in the wise words of a drunk redneck

"drink beer, finger chicks!"

I wish you all the best in your female conquests.

peace...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sexy_kuta

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remeba keep it gangster where ever u go homie
 

selfmademob

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good point

:crazy:

HAHA, yeah good point. He makes it seem like he's going to Seminary to be a Catholic Priest. :crazy:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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