"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Leaving YOUR # on the bill !?

Elimidate

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Let me ask you a question..

I grab a pint while watching the Live 8 in Toronto @ the Hard Rock cafe (4 guys at the bar, none of which, the HB 8 is really paying attention to except myself, and I naturaly flirt with her to let her know my interest, with a stratically used smiles and indulge in 2 pints of a fine ale called Stella Artois :) (Also, calling her by her name - gentleman, heres a tip - always score the HB's name from the bar receipt!!!!!)

So after scoping out the place and making convo with the other blokes at the bar, I decided the only element worth my time was the HB 8 bartender...She was extremely busy serving the patio so there was little time to sarge, however, all her buying signals are in full effect!

I had to run as I was meeting a girl in 5 minutes so as I signed off on the bill, knowing I'm the prize - I wrote- Nice to meet you Michelle 416-Elimidate Call me.

So the question is gentleman - has anyone tried this reverse technique?? Has anyone given the HB their number 1st and had success??

Cheers,

Brad
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Done it plenty in AFC days. It doesn't work. You have to ask for her # to show you have balls. Don't try to convince yourself this is anything but a cop out on the # close. And please don't sit by the phone waiting for a call from the hot bartender.
 

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I agree and rest assured theres no way I'm about to sit by the phone. LOL, it was a last ditch account to experiment since I'm the prize and also knew I wouldnt see her again when I had to leave !

I appreciate your insights and thinking it over, you're right.

If I really want her, I'll go back and land it seriously.

Brad
 

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better than norhing I guess but make sure you know you wrote your number

kinda like when you flirt with another guest and leave, making sure she sees that you left your biz card on your table ! show her the card, wink, place it against whatever, make the phone signal with your hand up to your ear, wink and leave

can only be done if you have been looking at eachother more than 2-3 times and smiles have flown across the tables

most suited for flirty secretaries etc and also works better if she leaves her number, so try the phone to the ear signal and see if she writes something on whatever !

/ scordate
 

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Originally posted by iveyleeger
Done it plenty in AFC days. It doesn't work. You have to ask for her # to show you have balls. Don't try to convince yourself this is anything but a cop out on the # close. And please don't sit by the phone waiting for a call from the hot bartender.

I have to disagree that it's an AFC thing to do, that's pretty ballsy. I agree that it hardly works. Asking for her phone number is more effective, direct and you have the control, and not waiting for her to call you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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