"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Leaving the dating game for a while

NeedToImprove

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after a year and a half of whining of getting no luck with women, in the past 2 weeks of not being around women not even interested in them i feel like im living what i didnt have for a long time.

I started getting my ass off the computer and started hitting the gym seriously, doing a cutting diet, buying suplements, a good workout combined with cardio, then having a relaxing bath it makes me feel fresh and relaxed and feeling great with myself. i started doing some artificial tanning too and i will have a otoplasty surgery which im very anxious to do. Also if everything goes well im goin to have a ortognatic surgery (i was going to use braces but according to my dentist, it wouldnt work, cause my upper jaw is longer than the lower one which causes my face to project forward). With this surgery i can align my jaws and use the braces.

look at these pics

http://www.difundir.com.br/fotos/01087_00585p3.jpg
http://www.drdanielfreitas.com.br/imagens/1403683846.jpg

see the difference with the ortognatic surgery plus braces?


this surgery is really hard, but im gonna do it. there's so much on my mind that i cant even think of girls and while im busy i wont be in the computer and dating websites that destroy my self esteem.

i dont feel nervous or angry anymore, just tired because of my workouts. i think sometimes leaving the dating game for some months is great.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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moneyisking

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That is good. seriously hit the gym like we do. it is a great way to live life and test body's limits. also please do take extra care with the diet. I learned in hard way that diet is more important than workout itself.

maybe you have noticed... after years of no luck and self-beating and agony, i happened to realize that every women bs thing we have cared about doesn't really matter. All I care about is to become fully confident of myself and love myself enough to talk to women without getting nervous and learning it little by little then. Hope you do the same.
 

r0cky

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What the heck is up with all these quitters. The board is getting filled with them this week.
And just in time for the warm weather. lol.
 

(JJ)

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nah, rocky, you're thinking about it in the wrong light.

here's a guy who's confidence is sh1t, who's taking a stand and directing his life where he wants it to go, like the MAN he is. we always say get your inner game right and everything else will fall into place, and that's exactly what he's doing.

great job man, keep working and improving yourself. it's gonna do wonders for the natural confidence you project, which in turn will make your success with women go through the roof.
 
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