Leaving on a jet plane?

[chris martin]

Hey everyone i met this beautiful girl in ireland and we hit it off instantly our relationship is just one laugh after another while we never run out of things to talk about she is irisistable and intoxicating while we make eachother very comfortable the only trouble is she lives in Canada i live in ireland it is my last night here in Canada with her tonite and she sent me this email that goes as follows:

Hey Garreth, I did too. I had lots of fun with you. I hope we can do something before you go. But how would we get around????? I saw pics of Tracy and Tims baby...shes adorable. I saw the one with you too. HOnestly Garreth I don't know where things can go with us. I wish it were simple. It kinda is. But I'm scared to admit it. hehe....it's actually hard for me to admit it..but there isn't anything keeping me here except for school and a huge student loan to pay off. I may have money in the bank ..but im still in debt. Sucks to be me. It's so depressing. Well, I'll see you tomorrow...Hope you had fun over here....it's gone by fast eh?!

If it is only summer romance i am happy but it sounds like she is debating her life here and that is fine with me also how should i play this we are both 26 with seperate lives and for any of the two of us to move would be BIG i dont know and i know she feels the same as i do: This whole thing is so **** up its hard to believe which direction my life is taken.

 

[penkitten]

what direction is your life going in?

 

[chris martin]

The sort of direction were anything can happen which yes is a good thing i have had good times with lots of women but this one is different just for the fact that we have opened up to eachother so much, confiding in eachother and to top it off she is turkish nice tan and deep brown eyes beautiful figure while yes im the average white boy tall and skinny but hey what does it all matter i am on my way home Thursday and then we will slip back into are daily lives...

 

[penkitten]

seems like time will tell you which way to go.
relax and things will be more clear.

 

[DJDamage]

LTR stands for Long Term Relationship. I don't know how long you two were dating but it sounds if it was a short term, with the premise of you going back to Ireland.

She was babbling on her email and at the moment it means a whole lot of nothing. If she wants to see you again great, let her pay for her own flight and then see where it develops. In the meantime don't bank on anything because you already have oneitis for this chick, keep dating other women and see where this one goes.

Long distance hardly ever work so I would be careful of that. Plus don't let the chick do something stupid and spend all her money to come and be with you and it ends up not working out . Then you are stuck!

 

[chris martin]

For sure bud!!! i have a couple lined up for coming home and i wouldnt be paying for no girls ticket that would be up to her - yes it has been short term i was just a little confused about the whole situation i have taken my chance of coming here and it will be her choice to go to ireland i just know that this girl is LTR material hey fate will decide...