Leave a message on her mobile or not?

[sylvester the cat]

So, using the NaughtyNinjas POF technique I got this girl's (HB7-8) number (although I used my own copy and paste introduction).

She replied to my copy and paste saying 'Oh I don't like those copy and paste messages'. I replied saying 'it was specifically tailored to you. I don't normally put 3 dots on the end of my messages ' before going straight into the NN technique.

I am presuming her IL was high because after I told her to give me her number so I'd call her sometime she asked 'when is sometime?' before going into one about how she doesn't want a random text or call in a couple of months etc so I replied 'tomorrow', at which point she immediately gave me her number.

My question is, when I do call her later today it will inevitably go to voicemail. When it does should i leave a message or just a missed call?

 

[rhythmic]

Depending on the exact nature of the interactions, might be best to just not call, and see if she bothers you about it.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Well, yes, I had thought of doing that too as per Sneevox's challenge thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=199000

but won't that just make her think I'm not dependable and not a man of my word thus shoot myself in the foot? excuse the afcness but i have to consider all angles.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

There IS always the possibility that she might pick up the phone - you should always be prepared to actually talk to the person you're about to call. If she doesn't pick up it just means she's not familiar with the number, so you would just leave a simple message:

"Hey, this is sylvester the cat giving you a call, hit me back when you get the chance. My number is 555-1234, talk to you soon, bye."

And that's it. The phone works both ways, so if she was feeling you she'll give you a call back. Pretty simple stuff.

BTW, next time don't fall for the trap when a girl asks you when you're going to call. It definitely shows interest on her part when she ask the question, but you want to keep her guessing a lil' bit as to when. Plus, it's a good way to test how flexible or stern she is - if she gets mad about you not calling her for two or three days after getting the number, she's structured and you do NOT want to date her. What if you had important things come up the next day and couldn't call her - would she get all mad at you for it? This is why it's usually good to wait a few days before calling - it weeds out the crazy clingy chicks.

Anyway... hope this helps!

 

[VladPatton]

I say bite the bullet and maker her wait one more day, as per Harry's post to see what happens. It's only one day, you can gauge her reaction, and you'll be giving her a small sh!t test.

As for her not picking up the phone, just make it seem like a business call. Say who you are and leave a callback number. Very simple. No expectations = no disappointments.

Good luck.