“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Learning Without Tutorials

Deep Dish

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People like to praise the value of tutorials. "There's so much you can learn on Youtube!" Tutorials are helpful for simple topics, for sure, but not so helpful for complex topics like computer programming and VFX.

People get stuck in "Tutorial Hell" where they watch tutorials for years but make little progress. They blindly copy what the tutorial did, like paint by numbers. They get lost when doing their own projects, because they don't have a solid core foundation. Tutorials are also misleading because what worked in their context may not work in the context of what you are doing in your project. Plus, if you rely on tutorials, what happens when there are no tutorials because you're doing something almost nobody has done before?

A better approach is project-based learning.

Do not start with big projects. Don't bite off more than you can chew. Start small and simple, do a bunch of projects where you learn a thing or two with each project, and gradually work up the complexity of projects. Your répertoire of base knowledge is built brick-by-brick.

Read the documentation first. Nobody reads the manual, but you need to. Documentation largely negates the need for tutorials and you will run into less problems.

I do not watch tutorials, except when coming across a tutorial while hunting for an answer to a specific task or problem, and only a small snippet of the tutorial will be relevant.

Tutorials can have value to see how someone else did something, but for that you need to already know what you are doing.
 

BackInTheGame78

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For programming they are invaluable to learn concepts by coding along with the tutorial and then having this work to go back and reference when needed. By actually doing it, you learn far better than simply reading about it as it reinforces it.
 
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