"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Learning to fly....

dax

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I've been using this forum, for around...3 months or so.
I stumbled across this forum when I was at a particularly low spot in my life.
After my 6 year marriage fell apart, ....I was lost....and on my own, and very lonely....felt somewhat pathetic...my dating skills were kind of fumbly....and in-decisive....
But I'm changing as a man....and for the better...., I'm tired of who I was before.....WEAK.
NEVER AGAIN
I made an internal agreement with myself, to never let the fate of my life rest in the hands of a woman....AGAIN. I am the master of my destiny....and if a chick gets lucky, I may send her a shot out...
This time I'm calling the shots.................
I''ve been diligently studying this forum, reading posts from the the experienced players, ....reading the stories, listening to David De'Angelo audio....partly because I'm a little bored, partly because I want to learn this game again....it''s fun, its exciting, and I like challenges....
We'll here's the bottom line....I got about 6 HB
s Blowing up my ****in' phone..... feels good, ya know?
...because I'm reading, discussing situations, learning, and practicing in the field....building relationships...the tide is turning...

Hey guys, it's about the "brotherhood".....and I APPRECIATE it!
So anyway....THANKS
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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al77

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Originally posted by dax
I've been using this forum, for around...3 months or so.
We'll here's the bottom line....I got about 6 HB
s Blowing up my ****in' phone..... feels good, ya know?
...because I'm reading, discussing situations, learning, and practicing in the field....building relationships...the tide is turning...
:up:

This is incredible progress man!
 

GirlCrazy

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Congrats on your new mindset. That's awesome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gixxer

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That's awesome, man! Keep up the good work!

What's really cool is when your game gets to the point that women just sort of move to the periphery of your life and YOU become the best thing in your life - that's where the power is. Keep at it, bro, it's the best investment you'll make in yourself.......

gixx
 

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