"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Learning to fly....

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I've been using this forum, for around...3 months or so.
I stumbled across this forum when I was at a particularly low spot in my life.
After my 6 year marriage fell apart, ....I was lost....and on my own, and very lonely....felt somewhat pathetic...my dating skills were kind of fumbly....and in-decisive....
But I'm changing as a man....and for the better...., I'm tired of who I was before.....WEAK.
NEVER AGAIN
I made an internal agreement with myself, to never let the fate of my life rest in the hands of a woman....AGAIN. I am the master of my destiny....and if a chick gets lucky, I may send her a shot out...
This time I'm calling the shots.................
I''ve been diligently studying this forum, reading posts from the the experienced players, ....reading the stories, listening to David De'Angelo audio....partly because I'm a little bored, partly because I want to learn this game again....it''s fun, its exciting, and I like challenges....
We'll here's the bottom line....I got about 6 HB
s Blowing up my ****in' phone..... feels good, ya know?
...because I'm reading, discussing situations, learning, and practicing in the field....building relationships...the tide is turning...

Hey guys, it's about the "brotherhood".....and I APPRECIATE it!
So anyway....THANKS
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by dax
I've been using this forum, for around...3 months or so.
We'll here's the bottom line....I got about 6 HB
s Blowing up my ****in' phone..... feels good, ya know?
...because I'm reading, discussing situations, learning, and practicing in the field....building relationships...the tide is turning...
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This is incredible progress man!
 
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Congrats on your new mindset. That's awesome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gixxer

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That's awesome, man! Keep up the good work!

What's really cool is when your game gets to the point that women just sort of move to the periphery of your life and YOU become the best thing in your life - that's where the power is. Keep at it, bro, it's the best investment you'll make in yourself.......

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