"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Learning to become Alpha after being cheated on (long story)

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She was a stripper, a party girl, not loyal or faithful, not sorry she cheated( means she will again) and still acting like a piece of garbage by putting it all on you when she is the one who cheated. Doesnt believe you will stay alpha. Wants to still entertain the attention of other men( you say flirting, she means cheating) proof! She wants to have a 3 some. Aka phuck another dude with you watching. Tell her a 3some is ok as long as it is with another woman, watch her bawk that.

Bottom line is this. You can't make a ***** a house wife. Stop trying. As alpha as you have become you are still being her cuck if you think you can fix this.

Throw her ass to the curb.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude99 said:
She was a stripper, a party girl, not loyal or faithful, not sorry she cheated( means she will again) and still acting like a piece of garbage by putting it all on you when she is the one who cheated. Doesnt believe you will stay alpha. Wants to still entertain the attention of other men( you say flirting, she means cheating) proof! She wants to have a 3 some. Aka phuck another dude with you watching. Tell her a 3some is ok as long as it is with another woman, watch her bawk that.

Bottom line is this. You can't make a ***** a house wife. Stop trying. As alpha as you have become you are still being her cuck if you think you can fix this.

Throw her ass to the curb.
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Some of the guys mentioned navy seals leaving the military getting with a woman like this and having his Alpha levels completely depleted because he refuse to let go. Her nature is a "drainer" on whatever guy tries to hang on. She will always be running to someone who doesn't desire her.
 
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Perfectly understandable. I’ll never marry again either but more for asset protection reasons.
 
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