Hey guys Ill start by sayin im 17 so I should be able to get into some clubs in a few months. But the problem is I'm afraid I won't even go because I'm a bad dancer and I don't wanna embarass myself. I haven't gone to a school dance since 6th grade because of this. I want to get this part of my life handled. I was wondering what your guys advice was on this.
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Learning how to dance?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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well theres no rule that says you have to dance at a club but then you'd be a wall plant 
so my advice check out some of ushers video clips hehehe, just screw what people think if you need some confidence to get you on the dance floor get pissed and not only will you have confidence you'll dance like a crazy man =D
then the next day you'll wake up thinking wtf was i doing last night
oh and ofcourse you could go to hip-hop dance classes or which ever style of dance you would like to learn, search around on the net and on the forum here
so my advice check out some of ushers video clips hehehe, just screw what people think if you need some confidence to get you on the dance floor get pissed and not only will you have confidence you'll dance like a crazy man =D
then the next day you'll wake up thinking wtf was i doing last night
oh and ofcourse you could go to hip-hop dance classes or which ever style of dance you would like to learn, search around on the net and on the forum here
thederekeffect1
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No, seriously. Look at some Usher video's.
Honestly, I'm pretty sure that no one even cares how you dance. I'm also beginning to think that the best dancers are the ones that have no idea what they're doing, but do it anyway.
My ex-girlfriend is under the impression that I am one of the best dancers she's ever seen. A friend of mine talked to her once when I wasn't around and he says, "the only problem with Derek is that he can't dance". She reply's, "are you kidding me?!". Let me tell you a secret. *Psst* I can't dance!
I started by moving my feet like I was tap dancing to a hip-hop song. And than I'd pick up on little patterns that I noticed I was doing and I'd start repeating them for a "I swear, this is an actual dance move!" effect. And it came off as cool! I caught people weeks later doing the same dance. Like they knew it was a dance move all along, psh. Pricks were stealing my moves, man. Go ahead, be retarded. If you look confident when you're doing it, it looks cool.
Also, when I wasn't dancing, I watched others. I watched the people who looked the coolest on the floor and when it was my turn, I tried to do some of their moves myself.
But if you really wanna learn how to dance... If it helps with your confidence... Get some lessons.
Honestly, I'm pretty sure that no one even cares how you dance. I'm also beginning to think that the best dancers are the ones that have no idea what they're doing, but do it anyway.
My ex-girlfriend is under the impression that I am one of the best dancers she's ever seen. A friend of mine talked to her once when I wasn't around and he says, "the only problem with Derek is that he can't dance". She reply's, "are you kidding me?!". Let me tell you a secret. *Psst* I can't dance!
I started by moving my feet like I was tap dancing to a hip-hop song. And than I'd pick up on little patterns that I noticed I was doing and I'd start repeating them for a "I swear, this is an actual dance move!" effect. And it came off as cool! I caught people weeks later doing the same dance. Like they knew it was a dance move all along, psh. Pricks were stealing my moves, man.
Go ahead, be retarded. If you look confident when you're doing it, it looks cool.Also, when I wasn't dancing, I watched others. I watched the people who looked the coolest on the floor and when it was my turn, I tried to do some of their moves myself.
But if you really wanna learn how to dance... If it helps with your confidence... Get some lessons.
diablo
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This has been brought up numerous times before. Please try searching in the future.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=364695&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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