"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Learning how to cook...

Do you think that a GUY should know how to cook?

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Bonhomme

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D--uh!

"Hey, hon, can you chop those nuts" (couldn't resist)

But really, for those of you who aren't scared off, the kino opportunities are marvelous: you got the kino while she's helping prepare stuff, the leg kino and all kinds of cute, corny stuff while you're eating (most women ... ahem ... eat this kind of thing up), etc, etc.

Candles, a glass of wine, and what not. All kinds of what not.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Not to mention using food to your advantage. Feeding her something to taste (food you pervs) by hand, major kino! ;)
 

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DEFINTE YES!!!!!!!!!!

Cooking is an awesome thing to learn, besides for impressing the ladies.

It's a great way to illustrate your artistic and creative side.

And even better, it's food!!!
 

Climax

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Great idea!

Originally posted by fuzzx
I took a chefing course here for about $500, came with a huge cook/instructional book, set of knives, chef's uniform and 3 months instruction. It was great, I learned how to make everything from Braised Lamb Shank to Vanilla Ice Cream! Now I throw dinner parties every week in addition to a wicked game of D&D... Learn to cook!!!
Thats a good idea... i think that i will also be doing that in the near future;) At the moment i am learning with my mother, but i'm sure that i'll get alot more done with a coarse similar to the one that you took.... nice idea:)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Here's a tip for guys who aren't the best cooks, consider recipes that require baking instead of cooking.

I was channel hopping and stopped on the Food Network and saw a dinner that was elegant yet simple but will definitely impress a woman. It was pork loin with fig and port sauce, roasted fennel with Parmesan and roasted pears with brown sugar and vanilla ice cream.

Now don't let the menu intimidate you, it just sounds really impressive as the finished product, but still relatively simple to prepare. After preparation of each item, you just stick it in the oven for the appropriate amount of time. No standing over the stove nor need to watch it.

The recipe can be found at www.foodnetwork.com on the show Everyday Italian.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Climax

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How about this....

While we are on the topic, Francisco d'Anconia just gave me a good idea....

Why dont you guys post some of the best "meals" that you have had or think are the best kind of meals to be able to make that will impress a woman;)

My idea of a good meal to prepare:

Roasted lamb with a maronade of your choice, brown rise (include green pea's if you want), some roasted vegetables or stir fry, some red wine (goes well with the food as well), water, and a fuzzy drink or 2.

Desert:

Ice cream, Jelly, and some chocolate spread ( which doesnt have to ONLY go on the ice cream, if u get what i'm saying;) )


Now obviously the food itself is only 3/4 way there...

Surroundings:

Din lights, candles, (if u have a fireplace, then USE it), some soft music in the backround ( eg: Barry White ) and a peacefull quiet place would really help alot in setting the "mood".


Well.... there's my 2c;) ... how about you guys?:rolleyes:

Laterz...
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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My best dish has been pecan crusted pork loins, Mediteranian cous cous, broccoli and cauliflower florets sauteed in garlic, a bottle of pinot grigio and chocolate chip caramel turtle cookies with ice cream.
 

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My father actually was the one who taught me how to cook some stuff.All you really need is some practice. Start off with rice,bean and meat combos' and move on to complicated ish.

Don't just stick to fried stuff..you might move out one day and you can't just eat fried **** or fast food.You need balanced meals.

Just sit someone down and ask him to prepare basic meals.

So yes Learn how to cook and wash,iron etc(any retard can do all 3 and manage a fulltime life but women wanna act domestic duties are slavery).

Right now it's commonplace to me,been taught to do that for me since I was 12.

Boys need to be taught how to do all that nowadays.
 
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