"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Learning from a woman's actions

Desdinova

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For those of you who are inexperienced with women this should help you. In this post, you're going to learn how to become a great kisser, and great at foreplay. But you're not going to learn it completely from me, you're going to learn it from women. Yes, this is the one time you're going to learn dating skills from women. However, you're not going to listen to her yakk about what she thinks she wants, you're going to learn what she wants from her actions.

This is something that you cannot learn from reading a post on sosuave, so you're gonna have to learn it through experience. I'm going to teach you how to learn from a woman.

I've seen time and time again how guys are worried that they are, or going to be bad kissers. The only thing you need to learn how to kiss is... you guessed it, a WOMAN!

Now, if you've never kissed a woman before, you must accept that your first kiss is probably gonna suck (pun not intended). However, you're in luck because women aren't going to judge you from a couple of bad kisses. But what you're going to learn is how to go from a bad kisser to a damn great kisser, and learn it quickly.

As you've read on here, women will continuously communicate with body language. They will drop subtle hints through their body language on how they feel, what they're thinking, and what they want. You must clue into these subtle hints.

So, here comes your first kiss! You stand there like a goddam fish with your lips puckered harder than a vacuum hose. You feel her lips meet yours, and a soft, gentle kiss on the solid rimmed opening known as your lips. Pay attention to how she did it.

After one or two more kisses, you should have a decent idea of how she does it. What you're going to do with this knowledge is copy the way she kisses.

A woman will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed

This doesn't stop at how she uses her lips. Pay attention at how she uses her tongue. If she doesn't ram it down your throat, she doesn't want you to do it either!

Also pay attention to WHERE she kisses you. I started dating before sosuave existed, so I had to figure all this out on my own. I learned that women love being kissed on the neck because they did it to me. Women will kiss you where they want to be kissed. There's some places where her kisses won't do anything for you, but you're kisses in the same spots on her body will have a panty-wetting effect.

Now, when it comes to makeout sessions, she will indicate how far she's comfortable going solely by her actions. So while the two of you are making out and kissing, pay attention to where she's putting her hands and what she's doing with them.

A woman will touch you the way she wants to be touched

She will also drop hints. If she begins to rub your leg close to your crotch, she's giving you a hint that she would love nothing more for you to do the same, and even go further up the leg ;)

When it comes to sex, it becomes more difficult finding out what she wants since you each have different sex organs. This is where you'll have to do some experimentation and take note of her reactions. Read her body language and you'll find out what she likes and dislikes. For more help in the area of sex, read "Sir_Chancealot's Advanced Sexual Techniques"

On a final note, women generally like the same things. Therefore, what you learn from one woman can be used on the next, the one after, and so on. Women will slightly differ in the things they enjoy more, and you'll be able to find that out again by reading her body language and her touch.

Good luck, and have fun learning!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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