"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Learning from a woman's actions

Desdinova

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For those of you who are inexperienced with women this should help you. In this post, you're going to learn how to become a great kisser, and great at foreplay. But you're not going to learn it completely from me, you're going to learn it from women. Yes, this is the one time you're going to learn dating skills from women. However, you're not going to listen to her yakk about what she thinks she wants, you're going to learn what she wants from her actions.

This is something that you cannot learn from reading a post on sosuave, so you're gonna have to learn it through experience. I'm going to teach you how to learn from a woman.

I've seen time and time again how guys are worried that they are, or going to be bad kissers. The only thing you need to learn how to kiss is... you guessed it, a WOMAN!

Now, if you've never kissed a woman before, you must accept that your first kiss is probably gonna suck (pun not intended). However, you're in luck because women aren't going to judge you from a couple of bad kisses. But what you're going to learn is how to go from a bad kisser to a damn great kisser, and learn it quickly.

As you've read on here, women will continuously communicate with body language. They will drop subtle hints through their body language on how they feel, what they're thinking, and what they want. You must clue into these subtle hints.

So, here comes your first kiss! You stand there like a goddam fish with your lips puckered harder than a vacuum hose. You feel her lips meet yours, and a soft, gentle kiss on the solid rimmed opening known as your lips. Pay attention to how she did it.

After one or two more kisses, you should have a decent idea of how she does it. What you're going to do with this knowledge is copy the way she kisses.

A woman will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed

This doesn't stop at how she uses her lips. Pay attention at how she uses her tongue. If she doesn't ram it down your throat, she doesn't want you to do it either!

Also pay attention to WHERE she kisses you. I started dating before sosuave existed, so I had to figure all this out on my own. I learned that women love being kissed on the neck because they did it to me. Women will kiss you where they want to be kissed. There's some places where her kisses won't do anything for you, but you're kisses in the same spots on her body will have a panty-wetting effect.

Now, when it comes to makeout sessions, she will indicate how far she's comfortable going solely by her actions. So while the two of you are making out and kissing, pay attention to where she's putting her hands and what she's doing with them.

A woman will touch you the way she wants to be touched

She will also drop hints. If she begins to rub your leg close to your crotch, she's giving you a hint that she would love nothing more for you to do the same, and even go further up the leg ;)

When it comes to sex, it becomes more difficult finding out what she wants since you each have different sex organs. This is where you'll have to do some experimentation and take note of her reactions. Read her body language and you'll find out what she likes and dislikes. For more help in the area of sex, read "Sir_Chancealot's Advanced Sexual Techniques"

On a final note, women generally like the same things. Therefore, what you learn from one woman can be used on the next, the one after, and so on. Women will slightly differ in the things they enjoy more, and you'll be able to find that out again by reading her body language and her touch.

Good luck, and have fun learning!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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