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Learning charisma indirectly

jhonny9546

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After years of experience, studying here in the forum (and others too), practicing what I've learned, and gaining new experiences, I've come to understand that many experienced individuals, or "naturally fascinating" people, possess skills that intersect with the materials and subjects you can study in acting.

I've always been interested in this, and I believe it can enhance your overall social life.

Instead of solely focusing on studying seduction, acting can provide you with skills in listening, speaking, responding, and being understood. You will explore aspects such as voice modulation, vocabulary, expression, gestures, pauses, rhythm, singing, dancing, storytelling, and more.

These elements can help build charisma because acting is also a fun activity!

Who here would think that acting can develop skills beneficial for social interactions and relationships with women in general?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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To add on charisma:

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Look like this is "sexual" charisma to me.

This is actually a mode I can enter very easly.
What about you?
 

Oatmeal31

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After years of experience, studying here in the forum (and others too), practicing what I've learned, and gaining new experiences, I've come to understand that many experienced individuals, or "naturally fascinating" people, possess skills that intersect with the materials and subjects you can study in acting.

I've always been interested in this, and I believe it can enhance your overall social life.

Instead of solely focusing on studying seduction, acting can provide you with skills in listening, speaking, responding, and being understood. You will explore aspects such as voice modulation, vocabulary, expression, gestures, pauses, rhythm, singing, dancing, storytelling, and more.

These elements can help build charisma because acting is also a fun activity!

Who here would think that acting can develop skills beneficial for social interactions and relationships with women in general?
Any kind of social interaction is effectively experience or practice that will improve your social skills. I don't think acting is any more effective than getting a job that requires interacting with the general public
 

plumber

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yes, learning a skill like the ones you describe is valuable.

one of the biggest components of charisma is self respect and how you feel yourself. if your good, what comes out is usually good. if your unhappy, pissed off, jealous, don't feel good or scared then interacting with you is less desirable.

funny how that by priority self can become better for others.

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#1 get yourself feeling good. several posters know how. the most recent one i noticed was that cranky old guy @BackInTheGame78 .

#2 get yourself doing stuff you love.

#3 sure, learn acting or singing or dancing or anything that give you visibility and contact.

#4 you will have it.
 

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Things like taking speech classes, taking up a cause and passing out stuff to strangers and chatting them up, chatting up your local Starbucks or local coffee shop baristas if you're a regular there, chatting up Attractive employees at Retail stores and joking around with them, having a coffee shop buddy to chat with and vent, having a Pastor or priest to talk to about spiritual matters etc.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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