"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i've just turned 19 (legal age to drink in canada)--now i am legal i would like to learn more about different types of alcoholic drinks,
i have had shots and beer for the past few years but i have always admired guys who know their stuff when they order different ****tails and mixed drinks

how do i learn more?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KarmaSutra

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Start with what you enjoy the most. I'm a Jack Daniels man myself and have all but fell in love with J.D. Green label. splash some Diet Coke in their with a couple of limes. Heaven in a glass.

It's like cigars. You won't know how to educate your pallette until you've tried a few.
 

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YEP... i learned a bit in wine and beverage class because all we did was drink wine and beer (tasting... but sometimes taisting happend before class too). But dont knock a certain type of alchole untill you tried the good stuff of that brand. i HATED tequlia and told everyone after i had jose cuavo (however you spell that). But then i got patron (get yellow) and you can drinkt hat straight and its smooth and makes your chest feel like its on fire... and cazadores is good; these are only about 40 bucks a bottle so its not bad... and they will **** you up. Effin vodka is good in my opinion, i am not a fan of grey goose (i am going to catch **** for that)... you can tell if vodka is good if you cant taist it, as stupid as that sounds... i love jack, i like it more mixed. just try a lot of brands, mabe a diffrent bottle a week with friends.

Wine is a WHOLE diffrent world because it changes so ****ing much year by year, thats why they have people that get paid to learn that ****.
 

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Livinlifehard said:
Effin vodka is good in my opinion, i am not a fan of grey goose (i am going to catch **** for that)... you can tell if vodka is good if you cant taste it, as stupid as that sounds...
Grey Goose is good, but not great. One interesting thing I've learned is that you can actually buy cheap store-brand vodka and use a Britta water filter to filter out the impurities. After 3-4 filtrations, the cheap vodka is almost indistinguishable from the $40/bottle vodka. You end up using up the filters about 5 times more quickly when you filter alcohol instead of water, but the money you save is well worth it.

Another thing I forgot to mention - use wikipedia to learn more about different alcohol. It will end up telling you more than you want to know, but if you retain 10% of the info you read then you'll come off as a drinking genius...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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