"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Learned the hard way...

Pozitron

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Damn it sucks when I miss the perfect opportunity or opportunities.
Sure, I see around me a lot of other more clueless or AFCs but STILL, WTF?
Today I was at the club for that party happening at HS each year (don't blame me I dont know or don't wanna think about how to call it).

I had fun..but could have had sooo much more...
I danced in group with my friends and enjoyed myself and saw girls I know, touched girls and a lot of things BUT.. I missed 5 BIG opportunities and many small ones.
5? WHat 5? Well, there is this super hot girl I know came to me and said hi, kissed her(not lips) and hugged.. could have done A LOT there.. it passed, another girl I eyed and that was lookin' at me....failed...another one all alone..fail...HBBlue.. me and her all alone (shock moment).. ****** up this one too...don't wanna even mention the 5th one.
uh...

ANYWAY, It could have been so much more today out there.
2 RULES for me forever:

1__When you see ANY opportunity you WANT to take you stop thinking, you simply go for it. You just do it, no questions asked, no but, no what if, no nothing! You fukin' take it right there cause if you don't it will pass and you will not get another chance the same.

2__ You do what has the best outcome for YOU/ act in YOUR best interest and don't worry about stupid s***.
You may have friends, that's normal and good, but the one who cares about you should be you.
You put your interests and "wants" higher than your friends, higher than what others think or stupid assumptions. You come first.

Cause in the end there are only results. You did it or you didn't. You took the chance/ opportunity or not. There is no common ground here. And BTW it sucks when you don't do something because of a friend(s) and 1 min later he does what's best for him and doesn't give a f*** about you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NorwegianDJ

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THIS, EVERYONE, THIS IS THE BEAUTY OF GOING OUT!
Even if you fail, you still learn and grow as a person.
Creating these rules and pain/pleasure associations is so key.
 
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