"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Learned the hard way...

Pozitron

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2011
Messages
275
Reaction score
3
Damn it sucks when I miss the perfect opportunity or opportunities.
Sure, I see around me a lot of other more clueless or AFCs but STILL, WTF?
Today I was at the club for that party happening at HS each year (don't blame me I dont know or don't wanna think about how to call it).

I had fun..but could have had sooo much more...
I danced in group with my friends and enjoyed myself and saw girls I know, touched girls and a lot of things BUT.. I missed 5 BIG opportunities and many small ones.
5? WHat 5? Well, there is this super hot girl I know came to me and said hi, kissed her(not lips) and hugged.. could have done A LOT there.. it passed, another girl I eyed and that was lookin' at me....failed...another one all alone..fail...HBBlue.. me and her all alone (shock moment).. ****** up this one too...don't wanna even mention the 5th one.
uh...

ANYWAY, It could have been so much more today out there.
2 RULES for me forever:

1__When you see ANY opportunity you WANT to take you stop thinking, you simply go for it. You just do it, no questions asked, no but, no what if, no nothing! You fukin' take it right there cause if you don't it will pass and you will not get another chance the same.

2__ You do what has the best outcome for YOU/ act in YOUR best interest and don't worry about stupid s***.
You may have friends, that's normal and good, but the one who cares about you should be you.
You put your interests and "wants" higher than your friends, higher than what others think or stupid assumptions. You come first.

Cause in the end there are only results. You did it or you didn't. You took the chance/ opportunity or not. There is no common ground here. And BTW it sucks when you don't do something because of a friend(s) and 1 min later he does what's best for him and doesn't give a f*** about you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
THIS, EVERYONE, THIS IS THE BEAUTY OF GOING OUT!
Even if you fail, you still learn and grow as a person.
Creating these rules and pain/pleasure associations is so key.
 
Top