Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Learned something new about Myspace today.

Tear Gas

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i was talking to a female friend today, which is also attractive, and the topic of myspace came up...she was saying how all these guys send her messages and how she just puts them off and ignores all the guys she doesnt know even if theyre good looking. She said most girls will not get into serious convos/dates with random guys off the net, and that theyre not looking for guys on myspace.


now i know why so many girls would not respond back to my messages when i used to spam on myspace! :mad: BUT i did get some action from some very hot girls, i guess you gotta catch them when theyre reallyyy looking for a guy in their life ? :dunno:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Raikojo17

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tru, i dont really spam on myspace anymore becuz of this. i jus got a feeling girls whoe didnt respodn felt like the girl u described. ut then again, i did get alot of replies and numbers from myspacr, so it jus depends on the girl, and if they r looking for guys. they give hints too, if they straight say they r single,or looking for mr right etc. then u can gaurantee a reply. lol
 

rsxtreme

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maybe it works and maybe it wont. just because she doesn't read messages from guys. she is probably assuming like her other chicks wont.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I dont respond to ugly girls...


But the hotties catch my attention...

Am i different from other guys? probably.
 

Tear Gas

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she said she doesnt reply to even the good looking ones either
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Raikojo17

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Tear Gas said:
she said she doesnt reply to even the good looking ones either
well then, thats jus her. she obviouly has a thing against meeting random dudes on myspace. nothin wrong wit that. i dont really spam anymore, but when i did i didnt let one girls ignorance to stop me. again that's jus her standpoint, and she is jus one girl. not all.
 

skip2mylou781

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send a message to 20 hot girls, 10 will think ur ugly, 5 will think ur hot but not reply, 5 will reply with their sn, and u'll end up ****ing 1 of those 5 within a few days

PLAY THE NUMBERS
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Myspace wasn't created to be a dating site. You might do better if you sarge on sites where the purpose is to meet people who want to meet people and date.
 
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