"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Learned something new about Myspace today.

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Tear Gas

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i was talking to a female friend today, which is also attractive, and the topic of myspace came up...she was saying how all these guys send her messages and how she just puts them off and ignores all the guys she doesnt know even if theyre good looking. She said most girls will not get into serious convos/dates with random guys off the net, and that theyre not looking for guys on myspace.


now i know why so many girls would not respond back to my messages when i used to spam on myspace! :mad: BUT i did get some action from some very hot girls, i guess you gotta catch them when theyre reallyyy looking for a guy in their life ? :dunno:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Raikojo17

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tru, i dont really spam on myspace anymore becuz of this. i jus got a feeling girls whoe didnt respodn felt like the girl u described. ut then again, i did get alot of replies and numbers from myspacr, so it jus depends on the girl, and if they r looking for guys. they give hints too, if they straight say they r single,or looking for mr right etc. then u can gaurantee a reply. lol
 
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rsxtreme

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maybe it works and maybe it wont. just because she doesn't read messages from guys. she is probably assuming like her other chicks wont.
 
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Skilla_Staz

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I dont respond to ugly girls...


But the hotties catch my attention...

Am i different from other guys? probably.
 
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Tear Gas

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she said she doesnt reply to even the good looking ones either
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Raikojo17

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Tear Gas said:
she said she doesnt reply to even the good looking ones either
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well then, thats jus her. she obviouly has a thing against meeting random dudes on myspace. nothin wrong wit that. i dont really spam anymore, but when i did i didnt let one girls ignorance to stop me. again that's jus her standpoint, and she is jus one girl. not all.
 
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skip2mylou781

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send a message to 20 hot girls, 10 will think ur ugly, 5 will think ur hot but not reply, 5 will reply with their sn, and u'll end up ****ing 1 of those 5 within a few days

PLAY THE NUMBERS
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Myspace wasn't created to be a dating site. You might do better if you sarge on sites where the purpose is to meet people who want to meet people and date.
 
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