"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Learn to become better with chicks so they can use you and move on to the next best

TheProphet

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Remember kids:

Read the DJ Bible.

Ask questions.

Work out, groom and dress your best with style.

Develop a solid social circle.

Do your best in school at work.

Improve yourself for yourself.

And then learn all you can from other DJ's so you too can become better with chicks so those same chicks can be GUARANTEED to use you too for all you're worth while you watch them continuously move on to the next best thing because that's what chicks do.

Let the self-defeatist mentality rule SS for life!

Now give me my reps. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poon King said:
What inner demons do you have bro? :crackup:

Look at you. Still upset. I must've hit a nerve. Boo! Hahahaha

Now back to your regularly scheduled self-defeatist program. :up:
 

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I know your pain, but what can you expect ? Attraction won't last forever, and the more un-natrual and self-conscious you are, the faster you will lose your "charm" is her eyes.
Only few men can keep a hot girl somehow remotely excited as a new guy would make her feel.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Perhaps we could all agree that there is a law of diminishing returns with regard to self-improvement and the pursuit of pvssy.

You can take your own Game/SMV from 4 to 6 with a modest amount of effort. Double that to get yourself from 6 to 8. Quadruple it to go from 8 to 10.

I'd expect that at some point, every DJ will have to ask himself - is the next step really worth it? And I don't think that's limited to pvssy; it's true physically, financially, and academically.

Plus statistically, let's face it, most of us are men of average potential - I think Game/DJ culture needs to be more mindful of that.
 

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Wilko said:
Perhaps we could all agree that there is a law of diminishing returns with regard to self-improvement and the pursuit of pvssy.

You can take your own Game/SMV from 4 to 6 with a modest amount of effort. Double that to get yourself from 6 to 8. Quadruple it to go from 8 to 10.

I'd expect that at some point, every DJ will have to ask himself - is the next step really worth it? And I don't think that's limited to pvssy; it's true physically, financially, and academically.

Plus statistically, let's face it, most of us are men of average potential - I think Game/DJ culture needs to be more mindful of that.
When everything a man does in life revolves around getting laid, getting a hot girlfriend or looking lewl in the eyes of others.. then yes.. he will be very disappointed later in life when he realizes all the shallow goals he put on his "to-do" list did not bring him happiness. Why? Because he over valued it. Men have a bad habit of over-valuing things that are pretty worthless.

This is why I preach that men do what is good for THEM. What makes them happy and healthy. Its your duty. And never confuse “duty” with what other people expect of you. Duty is a debt you owe YOURSELF to fulfill obligations you have assumed voluntarily. Paying this debt can require years of patience and discipline. Difficult as it may be, the reward is self-respect. But there is no reward at all for doing what others expect of you.
 
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