"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Learn karate (well) Chicks dig hell out of it.

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Do NOT get with the wrestling/grappling bs teaching her, because it is most unlikely that she will ever have the necessary strength/ferocity it takes to make such techniques work. She needs to learn the spear hand and spade hand to the face, throat, groin, armpit, and to arms (to break chokes) as well has how to REALLY kick to shins, thighs, knees, kidneys and I mean hard enough to break a 2 x 4 pine board, held vertically by nailing it to something solid top and bottom. She CAN learn to have that sort of kicking power and they LOVE doing so, too.

Even Elvis lost Priscilla (for a while) to their karate instructor! :) There is something about being a karate instructor that chicks really dig. Just don't engage in it if you are commercially trying to earn your living at it, because it po's all their men. The other ladies can all TELL if you are boning down one of the others and then they ALL want their lessons for free.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it is most unlikely that she will ever have the necessary strength/ferocity it takes to make such techniques work

fwiw, I think that sentiment applies to anything except a kick to the groin or maybe a well-practiced eye gouge. Like children, women have high-pitched voices for a reason; screaming for help so that a man will come fight for them is the best weapon they have. But for the sake of good business, instructors tend to delude women into thinking they can actually fight, which in real life would likely get them killed. I do agree that women like martial arts though.
 

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Bible Belt said:
Like children, women have high-pitched voices for a reason; screaming for help so that a man will come fight for them is the best weapon they have
Lol. I guess she better hope the guy who hears her isn't a member of this fourm, eh?
What with the "no white knighting allowed" policy and all.
:)
 

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zekko said:
Lol. I guess she better hope the guy who hears her isn't a member of this fourm, eh?
What with the "no white knighting allowed" policy and all.
:)
I don't think that necessarily applies to a girl getting mugged/raped..
If I heard a girl screaming and she was getting mugged or raped, you better believe I'd be over there in a heartbeat kicking that guy's ass. There's a huge difference between sucking up and having chivalry.
 

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Harrison Ford memorably demonstrated how pointless martial arts are. :whistle:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko said:
Lol. I guess she better hope the guy who hears her isn't a member of this fourm, eh?
What with the "no white knighting allowed" policy and all.
:)
You wouldn't do anything if a woman is being attacked and screaming for help?
I don't about you guys, but that's not a situation where I'd just walk away like "Oh, just another b!tch trying to be manipulative."
 

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If I heard a girl screaming and she was getting mugged or raped, you better believe I'd be over there in a heartbeat kicking that guy's ass.
That's pretty definitive of White Knight behavior though.
You won't get any more "White Knight" than that.
The question is, are you also being a "Capt. Save-a-Ho" if you do this?
:/
 

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shoot bring that mentality down to my BJJ Academy...I got Females there that will be tapping you out in 30 seconds.
 

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zekko said:
That's pretty definitive of White Knight behavior though.
You won't get any more "White Knight" than that.
The question is, are you also being a "Capt. Save-a-Ho" if you do this?
:/
Are you kidding man? You'd let a someone get raped or beaten right in front of you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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karate does not work in real life situations. maybe in a dojo yes. on the streets no.
 

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Chickfight said:
Are you kidding man? You'd let a someone get raped or beaten right in front of you?
I doubt it honestly. Depends on the situation though. If it's three guys with guns and I'm unarmed, the girl is getting raped. Realistically, there's nothing I could do about it. I'm not going to get killed for nothing. I'd call the cops I guess.

But I'm thinking about the forum, it teaches against being a White Knight or a Capt-Save-a-Ho, does it not? Seems like this is the definitive White Knight situation, isn't it? It's either bad to be a White Knight or it isn't. Which is it?
 

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Are you kidding man? You'd let a someone get raped or beaten right in front of you?
When it comes down to it and you're in that situation you have no idea how you're going to react.

Talk is cheap.
 

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lateluvr said:
Even Elvis lost Priscilla (for a while) to their karate instructor! :) There is something about being a karate instructor that chicks really dig. Just don't engage in it if you are commercially trying to earn your living at it, because it po's all their men. The other ladies can all TELL if you are boning down one of the others and then they ALL want their lessons for free.
Huh? Elvis was into young virgins - Not mothers. He liked her best when she was 14 years old. Elvis was obsessed with 14 year old girls. Go to Amazon or the bookstore for books all about his love life. He lost interest in girls when they became older.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...o-able-form-relationships-virginal-girls.html
http://entertainment.timesonline.co...inment/books/book_extracts/article7069532.ece
Some priceless quotes: The 18-year-old siren was simply too old for Presley. Shockingly, he preferred girls who were barely more than children.

Just before his 40th birthday he started seeing a 14-year-old girl called Reeca Smith, whom he called his L’il Lioness.


Oh yes, America's King sounds more like a French or Italian playboy than a good old Southern Boy :whistle: Actually, America was VERY different in those days. He wasn't after sex. He actually refused it from many girls. He was, in many ways, a perfect gentleman. Nowadays the Anglos would call him creepy and perverted. The rest of the world would still see him as a decent man. Interesting. Funny thing is that America and Britain are the countries with all the unwanted teen pregnancies.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBmAPYkPeYU
Maybe the greatest song of the 20th Century? Yes. Yes!

BTW, don't you boys love how I always provide links to prove my point? Can't argue with a linker. That is me :woo: .
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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im just gonna say it , karate is probably the least impressive most comical martial art there is , anything else would be better.

personally i love teaching a girl how to punch , most of them try to just throw their fist lol its a fun way to get some kino in
 

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i think chicks dig karate coz its physical (but not that much IMHO) but not that much and it gives them that sense of "security" however, I dont think karate is that good of a martial in the streets. Unless you are really good at it.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
When it comes down to it and you're in that situation you have no idea how you're going to react.

Talk is cheap.

Yeah, but hypothetically it would be the right thing to do. I'm not saying I'm Batman. I've never been in that situation before, but it's crazy to think that stopping something like that would actually make you afc.

One of the most manly things is action in spite of being afraid. You're afraid to get the sh!t beat out of you while trying to stop chick from getting raped just like you're afraid to approach a hot chick, but afterwards you'll regret not doing it. Different degrees but same principle.

I think whiteknighting is more like standing up for a chick even if she's wrong, just because she's hot.

Captain save a ho is staying with a chick even though she's messed up, because you think you can rescue her from her situation (while she's the only one responsible for it)
 

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Yeah, but hypothetically it would be the right thing to do.
This isn't a round table discussion about the latest topic of interest. With a gut reaction like fight or flight, you either do it or you don't.

I've never been in that situation before, but it's crazy to think that stopping something like that would actually make you afc.
I know what you mean. Some people here go overboard with this "AFC" nonsense. It's commendable that you would want to run to someone's rescue if you see that person in trouble but in some situations it's better to leave them alone.

I can honestly say that I've never run to help a complete stranger in trouble. Worst case I call the cops. I once found this guy passed out (or dead) by a local stadium on my way home from work. Hell if I know what the hell he was doing there, but there wasn't a crowd or a game scheduled that day. It was too weird for me so I called the police and they took care of it.
 

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I think whiteknighting is more like standing up for a chick even if she's wrong, just because she's hot.
You're probably right, but this is exactly why I hate a lot of pickup slang.
Most of the terms don't even seem to be accurately related to what they're describing.
Why defame real knights, who strove to be honorable and brave noblemen, by equating them with some supplicating wimpy males?

It's the same with "nice guy", somehow the term "nice" came to equate wussy, which it really has nothing to do with.

I think a lot of this stuff comes from the fact that, let's face it, a lot of men that are good with women, simply aren't the brightest guys on the planet.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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