learn from your experiences......

[Heretolearn]

Hey,


Thought we could all share our past relationships and our reflections to see if we can help each other.

Just thinking back to my past relationships. I have had quality not quantity. My last 3 relationships

1)

3 yrs together, she told me she loved me, wants my kids and marriage.. Really comfortable relationship. Nothing wrong but not this huge pizazz so I broke it off to get my bearings as I wanted more time before i made a commitment.

She ends up begging for me back and I say no, she ****s her boss and has a semi relationship. She gets pregnant, turns out she wants the kid (we always said abortion but she 'changed her mind'). Then has a miscarriage.

I help her pick up the pieces and say you need to be single for a while to work yourself out. 3 months later she meets another guy, they are now married with kid.

2)

Fling with girl for year. Thought I was in love. I was not. Broke it off as we were not going anywhere and I felt I was wasting my time. *she spent all her money and time shopping because she was rich, international model. Hence when that stopped (generally soon) I would be left with the bill and effort so no.

3) Check out my other thread



Reflections: Girls are weird!

 

[Jamo]

yea

Ahh ok.

There is a saying, what goes around comes around. You kinda screwed over that first chick, now you just got screwed over. Not a nice feeling huh?

 

[Jamo]

bitter loser you are

Get off your arrogant ass.

I treat people the way they treat me.

If you were "nice" to some b1tch who then turned all "selfish" and then got ruined by some assh0le after you, you would agree with what I said wholeheartedly. Grow up.

It is a fvcking 2 way street. Yea alot of women are stupid b1tches, but if you cannot treat a good woman right, then what is the point?

This girl wanted some commitment after spending god knows how many years with the guy, and then he balks when he realizes he cannot be so self-centered anymore. Get with the program.

 

[Jamo]

well

It seems that you are convinced that you have life all figured out at the ripe old age of 24, mr. wise man! Why are you on this board?

 

[Heretolearn]

not exactly the way I expected this thread to go.....


* how can you say I ****ed over the first girl she is happily married with kids.

I would have never given her the life she wanted. i did the right thing by me and her!

 

[Jamo]

that is great

Good to hear Egoist, then maybe you should stop bashing others on their opinions.

Yea she got married with kids because she wanted that. She wanted that from you, and you did not want to give her that so she got it somewhere else.

But you did treat her like crap in the first place. She sacrificed her time with you in the hopes of settling down, and you ditched her (I need time to think about it, I said no when she begged to get back with me, etc). When a woman "changes her mind" we spend hours b1tching about it on this website, and when we do that it seems "alright". Don't we advise guys to "next" a girl who says she needs time? Or if she says "no"? And told to go look somewhere else to get what we want? Just a thought. Just reverse the situation and think about it - yes it happened to you - in your other post. You were there for her yet she did not appreciate it at the end! I wonder if that other girl was thinking on those lines too!

I very rarely defend the other side, but sometimes a wake up call is needed here.