Learn DJ skills from a 5-year old

[Roober]

So, today I went to have lunch with my oldest son, who is 5. I walked in and watched him for a couple minutes before I went over and had lunch. I couldn't overhear what they were talking about. I definitely observed some interesting behavior...

-Casually touched her hair
-Stared her right in the eyes
-Smiled casually, smugly, or confidently
-had her laughing
-had good posture and just looked very relaxed
-I bet they were talking about complete nonsense (he wouldn't tell me... little turd)

Am I trying to say my son will be a little player at his school? Not at all. However, this is one area where I definitely agree with Corey Wayne. Watch young boys interact with young girls. They just.. really... don't... give... a... $hit. They just have fun, play, and if someone joins them, GREAT! If nobody joins in, they are still having fun and will find someone else to play with. Mind you, my son hasn't ever seen me with a woman, other than his mom two years ago, and the casual conversations I have. I would be willing to bet all little boys are just like this...

These behaviors are naturally occuring since we learn to communicate, and sadly, we are conditioned out of them. Hopefully, I can stop that conditioning in it's tracks for my two boys. If there is one thing I can give them, is the ability to approach people, and build strong relationships.

proud dad today!

TLDR: my son is a player and he is coming for all the girls!

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I have vague memories of when I was in kindergarten. The boy-girl dynamics just didn't take place. We just WERE. Didn't really think about it, only did. The teacher got mad whenever I did the same thing your son did, that I remember. She also stole my chocolate for lunch a bunch of times, was fat, and was mean too. It was a religious private school though so it makes sense as to why they wouldn't want me talking to chicks. Still annoyed though.

 

[AlphaNate]

The teacher got mad whenever I did the same thing your son did, that I remember. She also stole my chocolate for lunch a bunch of times, was fat, and was mean too. It was a religious private school though so it makes sense as to why they wouldn't want me talking to chicks.

I had a similar experience. When I started showing interest in girls, I was somehow doing something wrong. Even though the teachers were *******s, my dad seemed to think it was a good thing, which makes me wonder why I got sent to a religious school in the first place.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I had a similar experience. When I started showing interest in girls, I was somehow doing something wrong. Even though the teachers were *******s, my dad seemed to think it was a good thing, which makes me wonder why I got sent to a religious school in the first place.

Same thing with me. I went to that God-forsaken hellhole for 9 years. After 5th grade, they separated boys and girls. All that did was just make it awkward as fvck whenever we would talk to the opposite sex because the school had to make into a bigger deal than it had to be. Luckily for me, my mother had me very involved in athletics around the community so I still had SOME natural contact with women. I am so glad I went to public school after 8th grade though. Sure I was still a bit weird around chicks at first, but by 15, I had completely woken up and my social skills developed by leaps and bounds.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Acting on instinct like he should be. Enjoy it before the Disney indoctrination gets to em.

 

[wolf]

You just threw up a couple of flashbacks..

1) I was maybe 5 and this girl wanted to play 'dress up'. I agreed and the next thing I know she is the bride and I am her groom. We walk down the 'isle' and she full on rammed her tongue down my throat!!!!

Teacher pops her head around the corner..
"Was that nice Wolf?'

Seems girls have it bred into them to trick guys into marriage from an early age..


2) Sane girl.. We are all sat in a circle... she keeps smiling up at me and lifts her tee shirt to reveal this vest top with fairy's on it. I'm like "wut dafuq!!"... Teacher looks over at me..

"Do you want me to tell your Mommy Wolf!!??"

Like what dafuq did I do!!??

Chicks man....

 

[NSX-R]

Pook in his book says that we all are in one point of our lives alpha or djs and that's when we are 5-6 year olds. In this time of our lives , we don't care for anything else other than what we want . We use our instincts and move accordingly.

Later as we grow up and become more conscious of our selves , morals kick in and we start caring for the opinion of others for us , then we start losing the game.

It's exactly as you described.

 

[Roober]

Pook in his book says that we all are in one point of our lives alpha or djs and that's when we are 5-6 year olds. In this time of our lives , we don't care for anything else other than what we want . We use our instincts and move accordingly.

Later as we grow up and become more conscious of our selves , morals kick in and we start caring for the opinion of others for us , then we start losing the game.

It's exactly as you described.

I remember reading it there as well. I believe it 100% now, and it was just weird to see it in action. Teaching them to remain instinctual is key.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Pook in his book says that we all are in one point of our lives alpha or djs and that's when we are 5-6 year olds. In this time of our lives , we don't care for anything else other than what we want . We use our instincts and move accordingly.

Later as we grow up and become more conscious of our selves , morals kick in and we start caring for the opinion of others for us , then we start losing the game.

It's exactly as you described.

where was this exactly?

 

[NSX-R]

where was this exactly?

I think it was in the "Fountain of youth " . I'm not sure.