"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Lean/Muscular Guys: Dressing dooshy vs Classy at the Bar/Club
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
JohnnyStorm
Don Juan
Pokemon tshirts for the metal bars
Metal t-shirts for the poser places etc.
Gotta keep people guessing
XRCBWilliams15
Don Juan
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I meet a girl at a bar. wearing button up. get her phone number. we go out once a week later, i k-close. i see her at the gym the next day (never seen her there in my life prior) - I am wearing a tank top. not really a ribbed wife beater, something like this: http://www.dogfunk.com/images/items/900/HUR/HUR2256/CYA.jpg - she says, holy ****, i didn't realize you were so ripped or something. calls me that night, we go out for drinks and I f-close.
When I go out with the bros to a bar, sometimes i wear board shorts and something like that tank. I have close a bunch in tanks like that and surfer-ish looking outfits. It's an easy way for me to show off my hard work in the gym, and NOT look like a guido. fortunately this is acceptable where I live. In NYC for example, not acceptable.
dates, even for just drinks, i rock the button up. sometimes a fitted lacoste shirt works well too for an in betweener situation. lacoste has the shortest/tightest arms of the polo type shirts and fit my chest and arms tightly, so that works well too.
In short, i don't think it really matters, but showing off what u got if you have it literally never hurts.