"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lean Muscle Gain Shopping List

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Today, the doctor told me that since I'm on Accutane that I have to eliminate my multi-vitamins and my creatine, so now I'm even more dependent on my nutrition. Since the budget around here is extremely tight, and I'm kind of new to the whole "get your diet in gear" thing, I'm asking for some help in putting together a shopping list of foods that will help me put on as much muscle mass with as little fat as possible. I plan on eating 5 meals a day, possibly 6 depending on how long I am awake, and I lift and play football on a regular basis, so I may need foods with high carbohydrate levels. Thanks for whoever helps me out with this.

Off the top of my head I'm thinking:

Tuna
Peanut Butter
Salmon

and thats where my tired brain stops.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warboss Alex

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playing football isn't gonna make it easy for you to gain much, if at all.

lean gains depend on overall diet, cardio, food combinations.
 

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Well, for right now we just have a half hour "walk throughs" after lifting, and once in a while 7 on 7, no contact games. Full out season doesn't start 'til August. For the month or so til then, I plan on putting on as much muscle mass as possible.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Well, for right now we just have a half hour "walk throughs" after lifting, and once in a while 7 on 7, no contact games. Full out season doesn't start 'til August. For the month or so til then, I plan on putting on as much muscle mass as possible.
well okay, best of luck to you but don't expect a whole lot.

anyway, muscle foods:

beef
steak
eggs (whole)
chicken, turkey light/dark meat
whey
green tea
oats or other low gi carb
olive oil
peanut butter (no sugar)
vegetables (green for preference)
fruit (apples, berries, grapefruit)

that's basically what my diet is. I eat a whole lot of cheese and hummus and other stuff as well from time to time, but the core foods (above) don't change (much like the core lifts in my training).
 

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don't forget your whole milk.

and get kicked out of an all you can eat buffet twice a week.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've gained 6lbs in the past 2-3 weeks, so I'm hoping those gains will continue. I know theyve been lean because my abs are much more visible than they were a month or two ago.

Keep the stuff coming guys, I need as much of a variety as I can. I would hate to get burned out from eating the same stuff.
 

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CARBOHYDRATES
Oats
Broccoli
Sweet Potato
Muller Light Yoghurt
Skimmed Milk
Fiber Rich Vegetables
Wholegrain Bread
Basmati/Long Grain Rice
Grits
Whole-wheat Pasta
Wholemeal Pitas
Spinach
Apples
Pears
Oranges
Peaches
Plums
New Boiled Potatoes
Yams
Muesli (natural no sugar added)
Natural bean soups
Herbal teas
Chickpeas
Split beans
Black beans
Tonic water
Barley
Mustard


PROTEINS
Chicken (skin & bones removed) breast
Lean Red Meat
Tuna
Mackerel
Salmon
Perch
Low Fat Cottage Cheese
Quark
Turkey (skinless)
Sardines
Kippers
Whey Protein shakes
Veal
Venison
Soya Milk
Tofu
Quorn
Tempeh
Low fat Yoghurts
Lentils
Seeds
Egg Whites
Shellfish
Buttermilk
Bacon back
Instone Puddings

GOOD FATS (EFAs)
Olives
Olive Oil
Flax Seeds
Flax Oil
Almonds
Cashews
Nut Butters(hazel/almond/cashew/peanut)
Fatty Fish (kippers/sardines/mackerel/salmon)
Avocados
Nut Oils
Columbus Eggs
Seeds
Macadamia nuts
UDOs Oil

Although I doubt 6lbs in 2 weeks is all muscle.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skilla_Staz

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[S]alvatore said:
Although I doubt 6lbs in 2 weeks is all muscle.
I highly doubt that its ALL muscle as well, but I am certain that the weight gained is mainly muscle. If i have gained any fat or water weight lately, it sure isn't visible.

Also, thanks for breaking those up into groups, makes it a lot easier to toss together a list.
 
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