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Leakage from Condom; need input

itishe

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My girl who was a virgin until last week or so, may have gotten some more love juice in her.

The first time was when I went bareback on her for a while due to it being so tight. I was afraid a little may have gotten in so I picked up Plan B from the local Family Planning office which was free.

Now last night after having sex I noticed that my **** was somewhat slippery after sex. I thought it was natural lubrication at first then discovered some come had escaped from the bottom of the condom, it wasn't a large amount, but when it comes to this any amount is too much.

It will cost me $35 to go get that Plan B again since it's no longer my first time there. So I'm sort of worried I might spend $35 on something that might not even happen.

Anyone ever have condom leakage, not breakage?
 

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man i've had a condom slip off after i ejaculate and i had to use my fingers to go find it inside her.. true story.

couple ideas based on my personal experiences:

-- Birth control pills. Talk with her about them if you can. A lot of girls are getting them not just cuz of sex but also cuz it helps regulate periods.

-- Plan B. Yes, i think it's worth the money. for me, it's like.. $35 or the mental anguish of a potential pregnancy.. or even the cost of a real kid.. oh boy.

-- Astroglide. If you're concerned with tightness/dryness... put a condom on, pour astroglide into ur palm, rub your shaft with it and do your business. it will help. a lot.

-- Also, what bible belt did.. after u ejaculate..relax a bit and pull out. throw out the condom and wash up a bit... then come back and go down on the girl ;-) although it's nice to just "sleep" for a sec inside her.. your **** will get soft and the condom will be more likely to slip off or "leak"..

Hope that helps, man. Good luck with everything!

Ksolo
 

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this is my 3rd time typing this cuz the forum spazzed at me and didn't let me post haha.

i've had a condom slip off complete and fall into her.. i had to use my fingers to find it inside.. true story

a couple ideas from personal experience:

-- Birth control pills. a lot of girls are getting them not just for sex but also to help regulate their periods and make their lives easier. talk about it with her..

-- Plan B. yeah, i'd invest in it.. compared to the mental anguish of not knowing and the actual cost of a baby.. it's worth it.

-- Astroglide. If you're worried about tightness or dryness, take some astro, put it in your palm, rub your condom-covered shaft with it and do your business. it'll help. big time.

-- What bible belt said.. after you ejaculate, relax for a sec and pull out. wash up a bit and then come back and go down on the girl ;-) if you relax too much while still inside her, your **** will get soft and problems happen.

good luck man!

Ksolo
 

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Wow, I can't believe you're actually agonizing about spending $35 on this. Do it ASAP, are you crazy???? Deal with an unplanned pregnancy and **** the rest of your life up or spend $35??? Hmmmm...
SERIOUSLY WTF
 

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after you ejaculate, relax for a sec and pull out.
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I never came inside a girl even with a condom on. When I feel I'm coming to the point of no return I pull out. Then, bust in the condom or on her...
 

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Last night while having sex with her my condom ripped. Her ***** felt warmer than usual and I wasn't going to come inside her again. So I pulled out a while before I was going to come so I could blow it in the condom or on her and I noticed it was ripped.

Only thing I'm worried about is pre-come.

Here are a few things that you should know about it.

- She's on her 4th day of her period. I don't know if this lowers the chance or heightens the chance of prenancy.

- I didn't blow my load in her. Only thing I might be worried about is the minute or so of thrusting with a ripped condom and my pre-***. I pulled out multiple times during sex to make sure the condom wasn't slipping and on the 7th or 8th pull out I noticed it was completely ripped.

She started the pill when her period started. So I'm sure it's not effective yet.
 

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Name of - phase Days

Menstrual phase - 1– 4
Follicular phase (also known as proliferative phase) - 5–13
Ovulation (not a phase, but an event dividing phases) - 14
Luteal phase (also known as secretory phase) - 15–26
Ischemic phase (some sources group this with secretory phase) - 27–28



Sperm survive inside a woman for 3 days on average, with survival time up to five days considered normal. A pregnancy resulting from sperm life of eight days has been documented.

The most fertile period (the time with the highest likelihood of pregnancy resulting from sexual intercourse) covers the time from some 5 days before ovulation until 1–2 days after ovulation. In an average 28 day cycle with a 14-day luteal phase, this corresponds to the second and the beginning of the third week of the cycle.

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Menstrual_cycle
 
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