Leading

[h a r d a s s]

Lead.
You were born a man and born a leader. You notice you are happy when you take action, especially when you have direction in action. Choose to lead now, in whatever you do and take responsibility for your actions. The more you find yourself leading, the less you depend on others, the more you risk, the more you create your own destiny, the more you live. You will get to the point where you truly realize that God has not forsaken you, but made all things possible to you. Take the initiative. You put the first foot forward, every time. You be the one that others look to. Who else would you have do it? Who could lead you, better than yourself? Who could not use your leadership? Face it, we live in a declining generation, and people need you. You have to be the lighthouse. You have to show them how to truly celebrate life. Know what you love, know what you want, and know what you need. Never say, “I don’t know, what do you want to do?” By doing this you reject your self and degrade yourself to the role of a passenger. You cannot complain when you find yourself headed for disaster because you chose not to pilot your own life.

I want you to literally, take her by the wrist and run. Look at her! She is overcome with glee. She is excited. But it’s not because she is going skinny-dipping. It’s not because she is running away from commitments. She is excited because you are leading her, because you are being the MAN. You are strong, spontaneous, and adventurous. And she is in awe of you for it. There is nothing a woman wants more than a chance to be led by a real man, to submit to Prince Charming.

 

[hardwork]

Tips.

 

[Titus]

Yadada, yadada, yadada.
*Or in the immortal words of Daffy the Duck: "LIKE SHYT!"*

There are popular myths that guys are always the leaders, always the strong ones and always the roosters in the chickenhouse.

But that is a lie.

It's not the gender that counts. It's your charisma *And girls CAN have a stronger one then a man does. It's rare, but it can happen* So, to make it short, the leader, male, female, is the one with the stronger aura then his neighbour. Basta. That is the universal truth. The stronger leads, the weaker follows.

And if you don't like it that way, go and pratice building up your energetic field. It's always possible to make it stronger.

 

[chicksrock]

Good stuff .. very true

 

[Arctic_FoX]

It's true that people love to be led, give control over to someone else and simply follow them. It's the inherent laziness in almost all of us, combined with a cat's curiosity of not knowing what's happening ahead, and the attractiveness of discovering something new.

To lead, on the other hand, is a much more difficult task, and the charismatic and imaginative can pull it off almost without effort, going breathlessly from one event to another, never revealing their true goals to their partner.

If you lead, people will follow...

 

[Hollowpoint]

On a random note:

God does not forsake you. You will have forsaken him first before he forsakes you.


And yes...leading is what us men do.

 

[thebsharp]

Good tip dude.

Titus: You dont have a clue.