"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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leading girls on?

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t510

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Hi
So I have been dating this one girl for a couple months. The problem is I think she is very serious about the relationship and I like spending time with her but I am not ready for a very serious commitment right now.
How should I handle this? I don't want to lead her on but at the same time I don't know where it will go.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well you're the man, you need to make a decision. Go ahead and make a list of pros and cons about her and decide if you would enjoy the commitment. And it's just going to be bf/gf, not serious marriage. Remember, being a DJ is to bring you happiness, not about effing endless amounts of women. The girl in question should make your life easier/more enjoyable, not define it. So if this girl is just going to drain your time and make you miserable, you might want to reconsider your circumstances.

I'm in the same boat, bruh.
 
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