"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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leading girls on?

t510

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Hi
So I have been dating this one girl for a couple months. The problem is I think she is very serious about the relationship and I like spending time with her but I am not ready for a very serious commitment right now.
How should I handle this? I don't want to lead her on but at the same time I don't know where it will go.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fly By Night

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Well you're the man, you need to make a decision. Go ahead and make a list of pros and cons about her and decide if you would enjoy the commitment. And it's just going to be bf/gf, not serious marriage. Remember, being a DJ is to bring you happiness, not about effing endless amounts of women. The girl in question should make your life easier/more enjoyable, not define it. So if this girl is just going to drain your time and make you miserable, you might want to reconsider your circumstances.

I'm in the same boat, bruh.
 
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