"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Leading girls on?

mtlwlu

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Im dating a few girls right now, mine as well since I have more free time with school being out, I get along really good with two of them, and Im assuming Ill reach that time when its going to be down to one, should I wait it out or just focus on one? The problem I see is if it doesnt work out with the one Im not sure if I can go back to the other one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rhoto

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Yeah, if you see yourself going for one chick be upfront about it now.

You never know, it could work in your favor.

And why are you limited to two?
 

Kal0051

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Rhoto said:
Yeah, if you see yourself going for one chick be upfront about it now.

You never know, it could work in your favor.

And why are you limited to two?
maybe he doesn't have the time/money for more than two. At least that's with the case with me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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