ldr and spinning plates..

[Jair213]

Its that time to spin plates I think ldr is loosing interest.

Just went to the mall and got 4 numbers I feel kinda guilty though ill just see
were the ldr ends up and spin plates at the same time.

 

[El Suave]

Don't feel guilty, man. Have some options, she's doing the same thing if she started losing interest. Mine is doing the same thing, and I'm doing what you're doing. I hate not getting a return on investment and with a ldr all you get is to talk to her. Your needs are not getting met. Just hers.

 

[GotED?]

Never do LDR.

I used to do it and seek it unconsciously in my 20's.

I finally realized LDR is just for people who really have a fear of intimacy. LDR allows one to fictitiously perceiving a deeper relationship than it actually is (especially if it was created solely online and fell in love without meeting first). The absence of the other partner makes a real human connection almost impossible over time.

I finally got out of my fairyland in LDRs and faced up to the real hard true work and game in having day to day interaction with a woman in person. LDR is a safe way for those who sub-consciously want to keep the other person at a distance to prevent getting hurt- imagining wonderful things which never really existed in the end.

The time you DO spend together are just a rollercoaster emotional drama ride - once every so long you see each other, it is like an adrenaline rush for junkies. This is not a real relationship - as you never get to know the person on a deeper level consistenly over time. It comes down to never getting past the infatuation stage because as soon as you almost get over it, she/he is gone away for a long time. It is a viciously pointless cycle of time wasting being sucked into lust and nothing else more meaningful.

Exodus

 

[narcissist]

Never do LDR.

I used to do it and seek it unconsciously in my 20's.

I finally realized LDR is just for people who really have a fear of intimacy. LDR allows one to fictitiously perceiving a deeper relationship than it actually is (especially if it was created solely online and fell in love without meeting first). The absence of the other partner makes a real human connection almost impossible over time.

I finally got out of my fairyland in LDRs and faced up to the real hard true work and game in having day to day interaction with a woman in person. LDR is a safe way for those who sub-consciously want to keep the other person at a distance to prevent getting hurt- imagining wonderful things which never really existed in the end.

Exodus

yes.