"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LDR 1 week in.....NEED HELP!

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"What is it that you want? If you want to be with her, why did you dump her? If you don't to be with her, why do you call her and think about her?

She wants to be with you, is that not clear to you? If you want to be with her, then do it. What is the issue here? You were very ****ty to her and she still wants you. Is there a question here? The question seems to be what is it you want?"


I'm not sure what I want...I still want to be with her, but since, like someone said, its college and everyone drinks, and screws around, I'm not sure if I want to take that risk and then either have her cheat with some guy and tell me or cheat with some guy and NOT tell me. And I would never know, too.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude your making it sound like she's a HB10, i saw her move on. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER WHEN SHE GO'S A SUCKS A D*CK!! SHE WENT WITH PETER AND STRONEY!! IF THEY GOT SOME PLAY, how hard is it for a guy to come and sweep her drunken a$$ off her feet and into his pants?


I'm not trying to be mean, but i think your useing this "i going to the same college as an excuse" You can get there without her. I not trying to tell you what to do, i mean its your life. But are you really going to marry her? Mac on some other girls, she wont know. And maybe when she comes back something will happen.

But this girl seem to me that she turned you into a chump, telling her you love her, imovie, TALKING FOR HOURS idk it kind of makes me think that your kind of desparate for her but you wont show it in the outside. It might be that you miss going out with her instead of her.

I just think that their is no point is remorsing over her, life goes on. FOLLOW YOUR HEART.

What you guys think, should a LTR need an AFC? And how long should he talk on the phone in his situation since its a long distance?
 
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Originally posted by coder
What is it that you want? If you want to be with her, why did you dump her? If you don't to be with her, why do you call her and think about her?

She wants to be with you, is that not clear to you? If you want to be with her, then do it. What is the issue here? You were very ****ty to her and she still wants you. Is there a question here? The question seems to be what is it you want?
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You were right, she still does like me. Or "love" me, that's what she said.

Well I would just like to take this moment to thank everyone who posted on this thread for all your input.
 
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