"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lazyboy?

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Has anyone ever heard of the Artist LazyBoy?

If you listen to Radio 1 (UK) you would have heard "Underwear goes inside the pants"

I liked the song so i went on limewire to have a gander.

The radio is a cut version. I also got the rest of the Album. Lazyboy TV.

Its really good stuff. My sig is a quote in one of the songs.

I suggest people to have a look. Songs to look for.

Underwear goes inside the pants
This is the Truth
Are you Qualified?
These are the facts
The Manual (Chapter 4)


All great songs.....have a listen and se what you think. You can find "Underwear goes inside the pants" as the myspace music on my mates profile.

http://www.myspace.com/whoisjerenanyway

Or

"These are the facts" on my profile along with pics of me if you were wondering....

http://www.myspace.com/mini_tomatoes
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Taviii said:
You look like you are 15.

I know its going to be great when im 30!

I am honestly 21 thow. :up:
 

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Its well good. He makes some Excellent points in it.

The radio version misses the bit out about terrorists thow. Which has to be the best bit.

Terrorist Masterminds!


"This is the Truth" has so many good sayings in it.



Sarge On!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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