"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you get what I am trying to say here?
I guess so. A bit vague and lacking the objectivity to satisfy my aspie tendencies; but yeah, zero fcks given, long and short. I guess greater alpha is enough for me personally.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Any more feedback on this topic from other experienced DJ´s? Does it also work for you?
 

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If there is attraction you can do either way, she either likes your pics and decides to chat or she does not. IF she wants to cooperate sh will regardless if you give her your number or she gives up hers
Not talking here about online dating, but meeting in person.
 

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As to giving my number, I do it here and there.

As to getting women, I rarely approach women. It just gives them so much power from the offset.
I'd rather talk to a girl from a place of strength than a place of lack.

I put myself in the right place and the girls show interest by either entering my orbit, sliding me their phone numbers or they open me.
Though rapid approaching or going out to malls to approach women was never my thing.

It is so much easier this way. A girl who does either of the above has a higher chance to show up on a date and is an almost guaranteed lay.

I wrote about one of them here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You serious lol 500 two called back did you say shoot me a text like he said ?
 

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I still like Brent's theory more than any one else's
On here keen to try it
 

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Good video. I especially like the idea where you give out your number instead of take their number. Of course, both getting the girls number and giving out your number should work regardless, I think that giving out your number is less needy and attached to the outcome, and can come across as much more attractive in the long run.

Nice find OP.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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