Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Laziness and Procrastination

5uave

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Hey guys,

Maybe you people can give me some motivation....I understand that being a Don Juan is more than just being a PUA. It's also about becoming a MAN, and correct me if I'm wrong on that. But lately I've fallen into a bad habit and I can't break it. I'm a night person so I love hanging out and going out at night. However this has resulted in me sleeping for way longer then I should. I feel like a loser. If i go to bed at 3 or 4am, i'll wake up at around like 2pm! that comes out to 10 hours of sleep!! I tryed to make myself wake up early but I can't. I just shut the alarm off and go back to bed. Me trying to be a complete DJ, should be able to accomplish anything I want, But this laziness has put be behind in the things I want to accomplish. Any advice would help...Thx in advance.

So5uave
"I rather live 50 years like a tiger then 100 years like a chicken."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sanyo7878

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Get a job, join a club or find something you like to do thats a morning thing. I hate getting out of the bed with a passion but once i'm up i'm always glad i'm awake even if its the a$$ crack of dawn.
 

BacardiGuy

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The body needs its rest. Try to get more sleep during the week, at reasonable hours, if possible, that way you won't need to recover as much over the weekend.
 

5uave

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Getting a job has been slow because I'm a lil picky. I just Gradaute from college with a Bachelors in Finance so I need something related to it. I heard all the sayings on this site, like procrastination is masterbation and all that but why can't I just get up?
 

Phyzzle

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You might be snoring hard, or having sleep apnea. That could make you sleep 10-12 hours a night and wake up exhausted.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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highschoolguy

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Same I sleep for 10 hours every day but than I stay awake for like 20 hours. I do not have school and I work at home. My pattern is messed up I think I need to change it. Anyways whats the average amount of sleep you should get?
 

g g g unit

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highschoolguy said:
Same I sleep for 10 hours every day but than I stay awake for like 20 hours.
correct me if im wrong but arnt there only 24 hours in a day and not 30??
 
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