"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Laziness and Procrastination

5uave

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Hey guys,

Maybe you people can give me some motivation....I understand that being a Don Juan is more than just being a PUA. It's also about becoming a MAN, and correct me if I'm wrong on that. But lately I've fallen into a bad habit and I can't break it. I'm a night person so I love hanging out and going out at night. However this has resulted in me sleeping for way longer then I should. I feel like a loser. If i go to bed at 3 or 4am, i'll wake up at around like 2pm! that comes out to 10 hours of sleep!! I tryed to make myself wake up early but I can't. I just shut the alarm off and go back to bed. Me trying to be a complete DJ, should be able to accomplish anything I want, But this laziness has put be behind in the things I want to accomplish. Any advice would help...Thx in advance.

So5uave
"I rather live 50 years like a tiger then 100 years like a chicken."
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sanyo7878

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Get a job, join a club or find something you like to do thats a morning thing. I hate getting out of the bed with a passion but once i'm up i'm always glad i'm awake even if its the a$$ crack of dawn.
 

BacardiGuy

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The body needs its rest. Try to get more sleep during the week, at reasonable hours, if possible, that way you won't need to recover as much over the weekend.
 

5uave

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Getting a job has been slow because I'm a lil picky. I just Gradaute from college with a Bachelors in Finance so I need something related to it. I heard all the sayings on this site, like procrastination is masterbation and all that but why can't I just get up?
 

Phyzzle

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You might be snoring hard, or having sleep apnea. That could make you sleep 10-12 hours a night and wake up exhausted.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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highschoolguy

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Same I sleep for 10 hours every day but than I stay awake for like 20 hours. I do not have school and I work at home. My pattern is messed up I think I need to change it. Anyways whats the average amount of sleep you should get?
 

g g g unit

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highschoolguy said:
Same I sleep for 10 hours every day but than I stay awake for like 20 hours.
correct me if im wrong but arnt there only 24 hours in a day and not 30??
 
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