So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
When I first came here, I was a complete AFC... like to the point of sadness, not even to the point where you'd just laugh at a guy for being a chump.
Because of that, I naturally had gone YEARS without a date. I was completely desperate when I found this site, which turned that desperation into a conviction that things had to change NO MATTER WHAT!!
I learned about the game, and eventually started getting more and more dates, and more and more action. To the point where it seems that anytime there is any sort of challenge presented I end up getting laid that night.
In all this, I've found the numbers of women I've hooked up with skyrocket over the past 2 years, but without a relationship to go along with it... then came a time a few months ago where I met this girl that I fell into this oneitis with... I was still dating other girls, but I only really wanted this one... but she would never have dated me seriously either way.
I snapped myself back awake once she started asking me for these favors and I just shook my head like "WOW... how did I let this happen??" I felt like I had returned to a level of desperation again... but not the same sick desperation of not having ANY options, more like a desperation of I've been with so many women, now I just want to settle down...
I caught myself doing some of the same things in different ways, my attitude was right (for the most part), the words were all there... but something about my voice tone and body language had faltered again, I was projecting an aura of desperation to pull these girls I'm dating into a relationship.
Which is funny because that's when I noticed myself repulsing these women in the same way that I was before I even learned this stuff in the first place... that is for the women that I was attracted to enough to date.
I've been managing to turn things around by looking back to the roots of where I'm coming from and relooking at what my goals and aspirations really are, as well as the realization that for a relationship to thrive I had to maintain control of my emotions, or regain them for some situations.
Just posting this as a warning that there are different stages to the learning curve here... that you might get yourself to a higher level, but you have to keep an eye out for the same traps that had you as an AFC in the first place.
Because of that, I naturally had gone YEARS without a date. I was completely desperate when I found this site, which turned that desperation into a conviction that things had to change NO MATTER WHAT!!
I learned about the game, and eventually started getting more and more dates, and more and more action. To the point where it seems that anytime there is any sort of challenge presented I end up getting laid that night.
In all this, I've found the numbers of women I've hooked up with skyrocket over the past 2 years, but without a relationship to go along with it... then came a time a few months ago where I met this girl that I fell into this oneitis with... I was still dating other girls, but I only really wanted this one... but she would never have dated me seriously either way.
I snapped myself back awake once she started asking me for these favors and I just shook my head like "WOW... how did I let this happen??" I felt like I had returned to a level of desperation again... but not the same sick desperation of not having ANY options, more like a desperation of I've been with so many women, now I just want to settle down...
I caught myself doing some of the same things in different ways, my attitude was right (for the most part), the words were all there... but something about my voice tone and body language had faltered again, I was projecting an aura of desperation to pull these girls I'm dating into a relationship.
Which is funny because that's when I noticed myself repulsing these women in the same way that I was before I even learned this stuff in the first place... that is for the women that I was attracted to enough to date.
I've been managing to turn things around by looking back to the roots of where I'm coming from and relooking at what my goals and aspirations really are, as well as the realization that for a relationship to thrive I had to maintain control of my emotions, or regain them for some situations.
Just posting this as a warning that there are different stages to the learning curve here... that you might get yourself to a higher level, but you have to keep an eye out for the same traps that had you as an AFC in the first place.