Lay Report

[DJ Bax]

Does it really matter? Is having the approval of a bunch of high school rejects on an online forum that important to you? I enjoyed the lay report but who cares about that concord guy, I can't believe how many of the people on here get in serious arguments about little **** that doesn't matter.

 

[zinc4]

no, i just let them press my buttons, but good point, it doesn't matter

 

[Zarky]

Nice LR, lots of details, good work

Nice to see you tailor your approach to the culture around you. However, are you going out and doing this to find more plates? I don't wanna come back a month from now and hear she's now your "girlfriend" and "she's different" and all that BS.

Remember, she's still a club chick you boned one night. Keep it all in perspective.

 

[zinc4]

Nice LR, lots of details, good work

Nice to see you tailor your approach to the culture around you. However, are you going out and doing this to find more plates? I don't wanna come back a month from now and hear she's now your "girlfriend" and "she's different" and all that BS.

Remember, she's still a club chick you boned one night. Keep it all in perspective.

Thanks.

Haha....no, but she is already starting to act a bit clingy.....she asked me to visit her place today because she has Monday off from work and i declined because of work and other stuff...and I told her i won't be able to see her this coming weekend because i have a business trip and she got upset acting...but actually i just want to go out on my own this coming weekend and hit up the same club and mingle...so i am setting up a schedule of seeing her every other weekend for now....plus i have a plate coming over on Wednesday who i met on POF (started a thread on here about her)...

 

[Married Buried]

Yes, there are many others here that don't believe you. It's cool, not worth lost sleep.

I can't believe he would make up detailed stories like that. When I was single I used to tell the best lay reports and stories. Everyone was eagerly awaiting my stories. I don't have them anymore but there is no way in hell I could have made up all the details. Sherlock Cordon is on the case.

 

[zinc4]

Update: She wanted to do something this weekend but i can't because i am going out...so out of the blue with no warning i called her up yesterday because i had gotten drunk in her city the night before with a friend and crashed at his place.....was a spur of the moment type of thing after work....

So i woke up hungover and called her up in the morning and told her i was in the area and she invited me to her place (she works at her home on the computer..conference calls and such)...we had sex off and on for a few hours and some good convo and i said i had to leave around 5 in the afternoon because had work the next day....she got a little upset and told me it's not fair that i can call her up just to f%ck her and then leave and not be available to really spend time with her on the weekends......

I apologized for the lack of notice but then said it's way too soon for her to be acting like this....you are acting like we are in a relationship...she then back peddled up and said she was sorry for badgering me and she understood that I was busy this weekend but wanted to do something next weekend i told her i would see...depends on work schedule......i also told her i didn't see you complaining when my i was deep inside you and you were screaming my name...she hit my shoulder at that point laughing...

Afterwards i banged her one last time and got out of there.....to the newbies out there who always have problems securing successful relationships after initial success....this is how you get highly pursued women pursuing you for something more serious and it establishes your frame as the one with the power early on.....never chase the relationship...force them to always chase it and always be looking for new women on the side....and no i am not seeking a relationship here....i will leave here for good in one month...

 

[Zarky]

Solid bro, I'd be curious as to how you learned this stuff. While I don't always agree with everything you post, you're one of the few posters here I've seen who has some solid instincts with women.

 

[zinc4]

Solid bro, I'd be curious as to how you learned this stuff. While I don't always agree with everything you post, you're one of the few posters here I've seen who has some solid instincts with women.

Mostly just through experience and applying stuff i learned through trial and error from dating books and this site.....that book The Game is good and kind of opened my eyes when i was younger...a friend introduced me to it a while back when i was in college and it led me here...but he had a bunch of other good books like Mac Tactics as well and he would let me borrow them and read them...once you read a lot of PUA stuff and start applying various stuff on a regular basis you kind of develop your own routine or set of stuff that works for you within your frame...i have been sarging since i was 17...i am 32 now........i always make it a point to talk to randoms even when i am in a relationship...it's just good practice..

and also through a lot of short and long term relationships and seeing for myself what makes women tick seeing those principles proven true time after time again....and of course making a ton of mistakes and learning from them........

But probably the most single important thing....i can't stress how important going NO CONTACT has been for me.....going NC on several girls especially the woman i was with the longest and cared the most about, my ex-wife changed me completely......it literally gave me a new strength so to speak and helped me turn a corner with women in general.....people always post stuff on here about NC like it is mean't to jab at the girl they are losing, make her want them or to possibly get her back in their lives.....and these are all normal feelings at first of course.....however, it is a personal test for everyone IMO that literally makes you stronger.....it's like training or something for life and women in general....you get stronger at it the more you do it like training a muscle or something...and blowing off women you just recently met begins to feel like nothing in comparison.....

To give a good metaphor....in eastern martial arts such as Kungfu....the basic and most important stance is the horse stance...it is very simple to do in theory and nothing that tricky about it....but actually doing it properly and consistently is very difficult and requires a lot of will power and patience....but it provides a strong base of balance, stability and lowers your center of gravity making your movements and strikes much more stable and solid, coming from the center of your body........it is said you can learn all the techniques and moves you want but without a strong horse stance they will always be at a substandard level in comparison with someone who does horse stance on a consistent basis.....

I would say no contact is the horse stance of dating...obviously, it's not something that anyone is going to seek out to do, but IMO it is a required experience to up your inner game...

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

+rep. This was a nice read.

 

[zinc4]

update: i got a message from her today saying her parrot died this morning and I was shocked so I called her and she was crying and very emotional saying she doesn't know what she will be able to do now and how much she loved him....and she said the she thinks it could have something to do with getting her air conditioner fixed on Friday and we turned it on full blast when i visited her....and mentioned she believed he maybe he got cold and went into shock from seeing us together.....he was apparently just still right under a year old or right at a year she said...but she was hysterical sounding and just throwing up all kinds of theories...

and then she asked me to visit her and help her bury him today...i said i couldn't because i have work....to be honest i feel really bad about it...seems very weird he up and dies right after i come over......and now i feel pressure as well, like i am obligated to see her again to help her get through this...WTH.....i can't believe this happened...i already made plans this coming weekend with my on and off again GF and spent a great weekend with her this past Saturday and Sunday...was planning on being faithful to her again before i leave and ditching my plates...now i feel pressured that i have to see this girl again and feel a bit guilty and don't want to ditch her right when something like this happened...what a bizarre scenario.....i feel like it will be borderline cruel to tell her at this point and oh yeah, we can't see each other anymore...

I am beginning to feel that i will have been very bad luck/mojo whatever you want to call it for her when all this is said and done....it just seems like this wouldn't have happened if i never visited her...either that or very odd coincidence of timing...i lost my old dog a few years ago when a car ran him over so i know how it feels...it is not some small thing when you are very close to a pet and something happens to them....

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

update: i got a message from her today saying her parrot died this morning and I was shocked so I called her and she was crying and very emotional saying she doesn't know what she will be able to do now and how much she loved him....and she said the she thinks it could have something to do with getting her air conditioner fixed on Friday and we turned it on full blast when i visited her....and mentioned she believed he maybe he got cold and went into shock from seeing us together.....he was apparently just still right under a year old or right at a year she said...but she was hysterical sounding and just throwing up all kinds of theories...

and then she asked me to visit her and help her bury him today...i said i couldn't because i have work....to be honest i feel really bad about it...seems very weird he up and dies right after i come over......and now i feel pressure as well, like i am obligated to see her again to help her get through this...WTH.....i can't believe this happened...i already made plans this coming weekend with my on and off again GF and spent a great weekend with her this past Saturday and Sunday...was planning on being faithful to her again before i leave and ditching my plates...now i feel pressured that i have to see this girl again and feel a bit guilty and don't want to ditch her right when something like this happened...what a bizarre scenario.....i feel like it will be borderline cruel to tell her at this point and oh yeah, we can't see each other anymore...

I am beginning to feel that i will have been very bad luck/mojo whatever you want to call it for her when all this is said and done....it just seems like this wouldn't have happened if i never visited her...either that or very odd coincidence of timing...i lost my old dog a few years ago when a car ran him over so i know how it feels...it is not some small thing when you are very close to a pet and something happens to them....

It's a ****ty feeling when a close pet dies early. It sucks

 

[Zarky]

And now the crazy begins...