"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lay report gone bad.

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I don't know whether to be bummed out or relieved. I know what I did wrong, but I also did it intentionally, let me explain why.

A few threads from now I have mentioned I met a foreign girl. She is really cute, sexy, blah blah. I had it in the bag. We were supposed to meet meet up today, and have sex. It was fair game.

Anyway. I pick her up.. and bring her back to the house. We get a little foolish in the living room, but she is doing her hard to get thing.. which is typical of her. Usually I have the patience to play her games, but I didn't have the house to myself for very long. I only had a 3 hour window, so I'm trying to jump to the chase. This girl is still being retarded, and not being open to my advances, so I eventually grow tired of it. I go out and smoke a cigarette. I come back, and I invite her to my room. Hoping a new scenery will be better. Same thing. I quickly grow annoyed, but I don't really show it.. I just kind of back up, and stray my attention from her. She loves it, starts rubbing me, trying to put her hands down my pants and on my d!ck.. so I try again. Nope. Anyway, after about 5 times of this, I mention that I only have a certain amount of time, and we need to cut to the chase. She agrees, and I have her down to her bra and panties. Next she starts "joking" about me raping her. I'm just like wtf... I did not take this well, but I played it off. Then she starts mentioning how much older I am, I am 20, and she is 17. All of a sudden. I am having second thoughts... I can't afford to go to jail for something stupid like this. So I did not end up fvcking her. I pvssed out. So I put my pants back on, slightly confused, and kind of annoyed.. and I can tell she is pissed. She starts making joking comments about me being a b!tch and pvssy.. and I know it's because I didn't follow through with the plan.. but for 1.) she kept pvssy footing around too much, so my mom was about 30 mins away from coming home... 2.) she kept making these stupid jokes about rape, and my age... I even pulled my hairs off her bra and she made a joke saying "DNA!" this scared the fvcking sh!t out of me. Even if she was joking, the only thing it did was make me have second thoughts. I'm kind of glad I didn't fvck her. This girl seems crazy.

So I know I could of fvcked her. Because she was pissed that I didn't. But she kept running her mouth so much and her pvssy footing around only turned me off.. I mean, she is hott.. and probably would had been a wild fvck.. but this girl seems like she is just too much of a headache.

I'm sorry for the let down guys. This kind of sh!t usually doesn't come from me. But at least I can identify what I did wrong.. and I can safely say that I was the one that qualified her... her crazyness turned me off, so I turned her sex down, as hot as she may be..

Blessing in disguise maybe?

-Scars
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are you in the US?

You being 20 and her being 17 could very well BE rape.

I would have kicked the b!tch out.
 

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I'd say you dodged a bullet. Any girl who uses "rape talk" as a means to cut you down isn't worth it.

Don't be surprised to hear in the future she threatens someone with rape charges when she doesn't get her way. She sounds like a lunatic.
 

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Bluntmaster said:
Are you in the US?

You being 20 and her being 17 could very well BE rape.

I would have kicked the b!tch out.
Yes, I am.

When we first met, she reassured me she wouldn't be stupid about it..

But also, another thing I forgot to mention.. I guess she has been talking to a few ladies friends about me, that know about me.. and brought up my "reputation" as a player.. etc.. etc... I've been through this test before, and usually dodge it quite well.. which I thought I did. Then after that she starts making these stupid jokes. Then I started using the logical head, instead of the one on my penis.. and I was just like nope. If anything, the girl ruined it for herself. But I think I did the right thing. Girls 18+ only please.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scars said:
Yes, I am.

When we first met, she reassured me she wouldn't be stupid about it..

But also, another thing I forgot to mention.. I guess she has been talking to a few ladies friends about me, that know about me.. and brought up my "reputation" as a player.. etc.. etc... I've been through this test before, and usually dodge it quite well.. which I thought I did. Then after that she starts making these stupid jokes. Then I started using the logical head, instead of the one on my penis.. and I was just like nope. If anything, the girl ruined it for herself. But I think I did the right thing. Girls 18+ only please.

Yeah, you play this girl and tick her off and guess what? She cries rape. Good job listening to your gut on this. It never lies.
 

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I don't know what state your in, but in my state (IL) the age of consent is 17.
 

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Do you know how many millions of 20 year olds eff 17 year olds? Chillax she wouldnt tell why would she wanna look like a slut by telling for no good reason at all that she boned a 20 yr old
 

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Good job, man. You definitely made the right call. She's obviously mentally imbalanced, and even if you went through with it anyway and she ended up not telling anybody about it her insanity would have manifested itself sooner or later in another form. I would sever all contact.
 

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joe henny said:
Do you know how many millions of 20 year olds eff 17 year olds? Chillax she wouldnt tell why would she wanna look like a slut by telling for no good reason at all that she boned a 20 yr old
The thing is, she is a foreign exchange student. She only has a limited time here anyway. Plus, she is very open about her sexuality. (Bisexual) I don't think she really cares about her reputation.

But I think bluntmaster is right. If she got pissed off enough, she could easily cry rape.

I know a lot of 20 yr olds bone younger girls. I have been one of them. I've dodged so many bullets. I've got about 30 girls under my belt. I'd say at least half of those were "illegal".

I've dodged way too many bullets, it's time to shape up. I've got way too much to lose now. I'm finally developing a career. Going to jail for a year, having to register as a sex offender, etc.. would destroy my life.

Better safe than sorry.

Maybe I could have gotten a way with it.. but that's not really a gamble I want to take.

-Scars
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scars said:
The thing is, she is a foreign exchange student. She only has a limited time here anyway. Plus, she is very open about her sexuality. (Bisexual) I don't think she really cares about her reputation.

But I think bluntmaster is right. If she got pissed off enough, she could easily cry rape.

I know a lot of 20 yr olds bone younger girls. I have been one of them. I've dodged so many bullets. I've got about 30 girls under my belt. I'd say at least half of those were "illegal".

I've dodged way too many bullets, it's time to shape up. I've got way too much to lose now. I'm finally developing a career. Going to jail for a year, having to register as a sex offender, etc.. would destroy my life.

Better safe than sorry.

Maybe I could have gotten a way with it.. but that's not really a gamble I want to take.

-Scars

Once you get a "sexual predator" tag, have fun working at Wal-Mart for the rest of your life. Nobody will ever hire you. Why risk it for some poon? you'll have a new girl next week.
 

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I would have done the same thing. "DNA!" What the hell is her problem?
 

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You did the right thing. Few months ago, I met this chick at the swimming pool. Good looking and all. We started chatting, arranged a date with her for that Saturday evening... then,"How old are you", amoka wanted to know. "Oh, I am 17, will be 18 in October.", she clarified. "Ok, lets meet again when you turn 18", amoka closed that case.
 

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The legal age of consent varies from state to state. If she was legal for your state, then you should have just fvcked her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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As said above, some states 17 is a consenting adult; she does seem a bit crazy, but those are the best f***s.

In hinds sight, you probably did the right thing and saved yourself some worry.

On the other hand, you may have missed a 3-way with her somewhere down the line..
 

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Scars said:
The thing is, she is a foreign exchange student. She only has a limited time here anyway. Plus, she is very open about her sexuality. (Bisexual) I don't think she really cares about her reputation.

But I think bluntmaster is right. If she got pissed off enough, she could easily cry rape.

I know a lot of 20 yr olds bone younger girls. I have been one of them. I've dodged so many bullets. I've got about 30 girls under my belt. I'd say at least half of those were "illegal".

I've dodged way too many bullets, it's time to shape up. I've got way too much to lose now. I'm finally developing a career. Going to jail for a year, having to register as a sex offender, etc.. would destroy my life.

Better safe than sorry.

Maybe I could have gotten a way with it.. but that's not really a gamble I want to take.

-Scars
Half were illegal lmao. I try and avoid 17 year olds too but if they give it up hey
 
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