“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lay-Report: Conservative Japanese Girl

Redzky

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Another very nice success; to say the least. It is nice going out with her too, because everywhere we go she will turn heads.

Date #1:

The first date I took her to a Frank Sinatra bar that has a real chill atmosphere. I talked to her about Japan and asked her what it was like to grow up there. I took my time and wasn't overly agressive. I did use a Kino routine and threw a few DHV stories out. I used some take-away push-pull techniques also.

After, I did a venue change to a rooftop that is close by where I know the manager. I talked to the manager a little, which also raised my value; hense leader of men attraction trigger. I also used some NLP Techniques where I simply stated how I like how she is very comfortable with me. I told her that I could tell we were going to hit it off by her energy when we first met.

She ****-tested me a couple of times, but I just stared at her unamused and stared off into space unphased; which worked.

I also did an NLP technique where I asked her if she ever was on a date with a guy that she thought was really hot. I did this while pointing my hand toward myself periodically; as though I was doing it unintentionally. This is supposed to subconsciously make her think of me as that hot guy. This seemed to work, because she became more touchy feely with me, but that could have just been the whine getting to her.

I also utilized my own B.H.R.R.(Bait.Hook. Real.Release.) Routine; where I already said something to bait her. Which was that I liked how she was comfortable with me. I asked her if she was and she agreed that she was. Her agreement was a form of bait that she took.

The D.H.V. routine that 'Hooked' her, so to speak, was when I asked her about her ex B.F. She ended up asking me about the girl I was seeing before. I told her she was a beautiful half-white and half-Filipino girl that went to Johns Hopkins; which is true. I told her that it would be hard to meet another girl that was both beautiful and intelligent like that girl.

She immediately started to get jealous when I told her this. She began to move in and start showing me a lot of attention and began to chase me after that. I could tell that I had her; or that she was hooked.

After that, my 'Release' was looking off into the NYC skyline while we were on the roof-top. This is a technique called a take-away. I basically stop the fun discussion we are having and pay attention to something else; which gives her a feeling of loss(Her Emotional Response). But then she feels good afterwards(Oxytocin), possibly as a sense of security.

Anyway, I tried to kiss her a few times, but she didn't budge. Eventually I asked her what time she had to go. She told me and I took her to Time Square to catch her train, shortly after. I told her to text me when she got home; which she did.

Time In-between date 1 and 2 (Texting):

She texted me a couple of days after on Saturday, wishing me a good weekend; which told me she was interested in seeing me again. I texted her the next day(Sunday) to know when she was free the following week.

She responded with Saturday, so I waited a week until then. I sent her a text Wednesday, telling her I was thinking of her. She responded with that's sweet and a smiley face; I believe.

I text her again Saturday around 9am and tell her I'm looking forward to see her and she follows up by saying she is also. I told her in the prior text to meet the same place as before at 6.

Date #2:

Now this Date went pretty well also. We ended up seeing a movie and after I suggested going to this nice bar that was uptown. I went here because it's closer to my place. We went there and I ordered Yamazaki; which is a really strong Japanese whiskey.

After she has some whine and I finished my whiskey I suggested another place close by. By this time I still hadn't gotten the kiss, even though I tried. I could tell she was having fun though, so I suggested we go to my place and chill. I told her we could watch another movie.

She intitially told me no but then I told her, while looking straight into her eyes, that I'm not expecting anything. She then said "Ok". She was a little distant on the cab ride to my place, but I held my frame and just looked out the window. She started to move closer when she saw that I was calm.

We go up to my place and watch a movie. We ended up making out on my bed and dry humped. When I was hard I put her hand on my ****. She started to feel it and eventually she just pulled it out and gave me a hand-job. I knew right there I was in, but I was patient about it.

I was satisfied with the hand-job and in my experience, I usually get sex the follow-up date if I can get a hand-job. So I asked her after we messed around when she had to go. She told me at around 1 or something like that. So I we made out a little and I pulled back and continued watching the movie. In the meantime she had her arms around me and was just watching the movie, while cuddling.

While watching the movie, she told me that she wanted to go to Rockefeller Center the next day around 1pm and I agreed. The movie ended and I walked her to the train station.

Time Inbetween date 2 and 3 (Texting):

I had her text me when she got home; which she did.

Date #3:

I set my alarm and woke up around 11, then took a shower and headed to see her. We met up at Columbus Circle and I took her to that big mall that has all the trendy clothing stores by the circle.

I was kind of getting hungry, because I didn't eat breakfast. So we went to this nice restaurant on the fourth floor that looked out over Central Park. I never eat a lot on dates; just a small meal. I do this for obvious reasons.

So after we ate, we went for a walk in Central Park. We basically just talked about light stuff, like what people are like in Japan vs. The United States, etc.

I ended up telling her that I am kind of tired from drinking the night before and suggested going back to my place and just chilling again. I used playing my guitar for her as an excuse this time.

We went back I put another movie in and this time she was more comfortable, because I hadn't said anything to **** it up yet. We made out a little and by this time it was already starting to get dark.

I ended up feeling on her butt and chest. When I saw she was ok with this then I started to take off her pants. At first she pushed my hand away, so I backed off. I continued making out with her until she was breathing hard.

I could tell she was getting turned on now, so I went to take her pants off again. This time she let me, finally. I got her pants off and grabbed a condom from my jeans and put it on.

She was so ****ing tight that it took me like 2 mins just to get it in and I still couldn't put it in all the way. Which is exactly why I love Asian girls so much.

So that's my story from this experience and it was definitely worth the amount of trust I built. I feel like if I was overly-agressive I could've lost this one. And even if I did have sex with her sooner, I don't think the sex would've been as meaningful.

I've been seeing her for awhile now and I spent the night at her place the other day, so things are still going strong.

We haven't talked about anything serious yet and I'm not really in a rush for anything either, but this was definitely a great sarge and I enjoyed every moment of it.

Thanks for reading this and keep going out!

-PUA Redsky
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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