"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Lay Report: "Can You Save Me Please?"

bachelor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2007
Messages
207
Reaction score
5
I start my day at around 11 in the morning and set up to meet an HB Korean Girl in the city for lunch. I get there at around 2 and she has a coffee in her hand and one for me. I thought this was pretty nice of her so I thanked her for it. I am working in Korea by the way. We go to lunch and she's showing me around everywhere. She tells me that she's been seeing this guy who has been her friend for 5 years. I played it cool and she kept talking about other things. Obviously, she's not too into him if she's meeting up with me for lunch. We go around Seoul and do some sight seeing. Finally, she has to leave at 5:00 PM. I give her a hug and a kiss. We decide to meet up next weekend. (With this girl she has a curfew and still lives with her parents. Her English is fluent and she's an awesome girl. I'm going to meet up with her again and see how things go.)

I hang out in the city and wait for some friends to meet up. Im hanging out at the bar and decide to have a few drinks until everyone gets there. It's still early about 930PM. I didn't open any sets here because there was hardly anyone there. I kill a few drinks then proceed to the next bar to meet up with some friends.

I get to the bar and have a few more drinks with two guys I had ran into the night before. One of the guys was actually going to step up as a great wing for me later on in the night. I go and get a drink and by this time its around 11:00 PM. While I'm walking to my chair, an HB blonde catches my eye. I put my drink down and I decide to go over and dance with her. As soon as I dance with her, she says "Can You Save me Please. This guy right there won't stop dancing with me and he's really beginning to creep me out." I do her the favor and "save her." She thanks me for saving her.

She is smoking hot and not to mention a dancer. We dance for a few songs then she goes over and talks to her friends. I talk with mine while she is doing this. She brings her HB Korean friend over with her. The guy I had just met earlier in the night is my wing mainly because he is within a close proximity to me. The girl I am talking to introduces them and they hit it off right away. Within 5 minutes he was over on the other side of the bar dancing with her.

Time passes by and my wing is over at one of the tables with his girl. I take mine with me and we start talking about each other. Turns out she's from Indiana and this is her second year in Korea. She is really beginning to show me some IOI touching my hands and flirting with me. Next thing you know, she has her legs on me. This is when I gave her a nice juicy kiss on the lips. She was loving this. I was using the push pull technique by kissing her some then pulling back. My wing grabs his girl and he tells us he's taking her out for some coffee. This was big here because it gave me some "alone time" with the girl I was talking to.

After my wing leaves with his girl, I decide to take the lead with mine. I tell her "I'm going to grab my coat let's go to another bar that isn't as crowded." We head to the next bar and it has a great ambiance. When we get there, I order us two drinks. We continue to talk and dance more. She begins telling me about how she loves dogs and she has two at home. I tell her I'm a big animal lover. This was my cue. "Why don't we go hang out at your place?" She replies "Sure we can have some wine to and I'd love for you to meet my dogs. (she gives the names but I forgot)

Finally, we head back to her place after a long cab ride. As soon as we get in, I hear the dogs. They are two Miniature Pinschers.This girl was in love with her dogs I could tell right off the bat. She was explaining to me that one was having kidney failure and that it has so much energy for being sick. Believe me the only way you could tell the dog was sick was due to its weight. I pet the dogs for a little bit and they love me she points it out. She seemed really happy. We pour out the bottle of wine and have a few drinks. I throw on some music and I begin to take control from here.

We sit down on her bed and begin to kiss. While this is going on, the dogs are in between the two of us. They did not want to give us alone time at all. Her place is a studio so the only other option was putting them into the bathroom. I never directly suggested for her to put the dogs in the bathroom. She decided to do it. Once the dogs were finally in the bathroom, I continued to advance. Began by kissing, then I slowly took off her clothes. This girl had some smoking tits. I licked on her nipples and she got turned on.

I end up taking off all her clothes and I ran the show from there. It was an intense couple of hours with the sound of dogs barking in the background. But who cares right, as long as it was a good time? The next morning we woke up and I left. She gave me her number and told me she'd make me dinner in the week. She's like "Give me a call..." I think I'll call her on the weekend and maybe keep her as a hook up girl on the side.


Lessons Applied:
1. The Importance of a solid wingman
2. Setting up to hang out at her place at the right time
3. Being patient with her dogs
 
Last edited:

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

qstorm501

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2007
Messages
70
Reaction score
1
Location
Northeast Ohio
bachelor said:
. It was an intense couple of hours with the sound of dogs barking in the background. But who cares right,

LMAO Reminds me of this chick i was seeing that had this big Labrador, every time i would nail her the dog would be at her door freaking out , barking loud , and scratching on the door and s**t

Props on the same night lay.. Sounds like one of those nights were everything lined up perfect..And yes for clubbing and bars a solid wingman is critical, although id rather be solo than have a deficient wing
 
Top