"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chamber36

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Sup guys.

Last night I went out with my friend, convinced him to take me to a bar with lots of sluts. Got 2 make-outs and got laid by the second chick. Some crazy Australian broad.

Now it seems like she just wanted some cawk to me. I talked to her in the smoking section, before I left the club I got her number, I could tell she wanted to make out, but I left her wanting more. Came back 1.5 hours later and she was flailing her arms around in a drunk attempt to dance. So I get a make-out from another chick. See her again in the smoking section. She invites me to the dancefloor, I comply, dance for 1 minute and make out. After 5 mins of making out I start to finger her. After about 15-20 mins of that, she asks me whether I want to leave. I agree and we leave the club.

I was a bit nervous taking her home with me because I hadn't gotten so many lays like that before and I didn't want to do anything incongruent since I was pretty tipsy. Anyway, after chatting in my living room for half an hour, she asks me whether I want to go to bed, I comply and we go to bed. After lighting some candles she grabs me to come on top of her. I start to finger her some more, while making out, then I put on the condom and fvck her.

Now, it was pretty alright because her eyes started rolling into the back of her head. She didn't moan too much though and her eyes were closed all the time, so I got the impression she was fantasizing about someone else, possibly my roommate who is a male model whom negged her and even asked her how many STD's she had. She claimed to have zero. Her pvssy wasn't that deep though, and she wouldn't allow me to fold her legs back and give her some long strokes because I was bangin up the cervix. After 10 mins of that I told her turn around for some doggy, she reluctantly complied and didn't arch her back so I couldn't hit it properly. After 10 mins of that I make it into a reverse cowgirl and she is riding me slow as hell. I just grabbed her ass and controlled the motion, but she was pretty burnt out by then. All the alcohol and numbed my d|ck a little, but I wasn't ready to call it quits, since I wanted to c*m. So she gets back on her back and I was strokin it from missionary again. She wouldn't allow me to fold up either leg. She even only had her legs spread slightly so that I couldn't get it in fully, so I was getting a little frustrated. Anyway, after another 20 mins of missionary, she claimed she could barely take it anymore I told her to just hold on. Anyway I eventually c*me inside her. When I pulled it out I noticed that my johnson had penetrated the condom. I told her so that she would know to take a morning after pill and we both lay there exhausted for a few minutes in silence. I got us some water and then we basically went to sleep.

Her lack of the usual affection I get from chicks and business-like demeanor gives me the idea it was a ONS. She was a lousy fvck but I am wondering if I could teach her some more tricks in the future. She seemed to be pretty exhausted last night after clubbing for 6 hours then walking home for about 20 minutes in high heels.

Her thighs were pulsating with blood when I was finished, and she had a few spasms as well. She also said I was good, which I already knew.

The thing is, she didn't tell me to call her or anything the next day. This lack of affection stuff is bad for my ego. I started getting all nervous the next morning as she just wanted to GTFO. She patted me on the head and I gave her directions how to get home.

Now I am getting the feeling if I call or text her she might just blow me off thinking I'd gotten all affectionate towards her. I was thinking of a Fvck-buddy type of relationship, though judging from her demeanor she may already have a few. I looked in her phone for a second while she was asleep. Couldn't bring myself to check her text-messages. I saw that she had 1 received call from a guy.

So now what do I do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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foreverAFC

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she sounds like great gf material
 

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foreverAFC said:
she sounds like great gf material
Do not listen to this dude. I thought his screen name was already very negative until I saw his negative and sarcastic comment.





Chamber36 said:
I got the impression she was fantasizing about someone else, possibly my roommate who is a male model whom negged her and even asked her how many STD's she had.

Chicks fantasize all the time, man. Did she actually do it or was she just embedded in the pleasure you were giving her? I do not know. Do not make a big deal out of it. On the other hand, behave more like your roommate and do not put women so "high" above you, so to speak.


Now I am getting the feeling if I call or text her she might just blow me off.

A good professor of mine says to me "do not doubt yourself; and if there comes a time you do, let someone else reject you rather than rejecting yourself." If you apply to Harvard, there is a chance you will get in (very little one) and a chance you will be rejected (larger than your chance of admission). However, there is a 100% chance that you will not be accepted if you do not apply in the first place.

Do not text her--that's for manginas. You already banged this girl and she said you were good, which you "already knew." Ask yourself " am I putting up a facade of confidence or am I really confident?" Call her girl and invite her to hangout with you; if she does, awesome; if she does not...be persistent and tell her you had too much fun last time to just let it go to waste (based on what she told you; tell her things she said about liking you, even if she doesn't remember because she was drunk). If she still says no, try in a week. If she still says no then, do not burn the bridge; keep her as a friend and find another girl. She may eventually come back for more.


So now what do I do?
I just answered above ^

Keep being money,

-Robyn
 
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