"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lay Report: Arkansas American Girl

Redzky

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I met this lady awhile back and have to say that it was quite the experience. I managed to scoop her up with one of My Russian friends and it was a pleasant time for the most part.

She had a friend with her, that was a little more curvy, but she was a little older. I do appreciate curvy women, but I had already kissed the target I was talking with in front of the curvier friend. I've learned from prior experiences that changing your mind mid-sarge doesn't always work out that well - at least with most American girls.

We initially met at a bar right in the smack-dab middle of Times square that I like to go every so often. I was the first to suggest going somewhere else; I like to change venues frequently to build comfort.

At first they were hesitant, but then I introduced them to my friend and thankfully he didn't behave like a creep. He was very polite and respectful, so they decided to go with us.

We went to a pool hall in Korea town that I am a regular at - I actually have the owner of the place friended on Facebook. Most of the time they treat me well and when I bring girls, they always treat me well.

So I introduced the two of the girls to the security at this place - I guess I can say he is somewhat of an acquaintance. The friend of my target seemed to take a liking to him. That was nice, because it eliminated a chance of me getting ****blocked.

We had a few drinks, played some pool and they took a few smoke-breaks in the smoking area out in the back. The girl I was talking with told me how she and her friend were both recently divorced with no kids. I remember talking with someone at some point who had told me that recent divorcees are usually on the prowl. In this circumstance that was definitely the case. She also told me how they were both Lawyers - which was kind of cool I guess.

So since she had already qualified herself to me by telling me she was a lawyer, I decided to get her qualifying even more. I did so by asking her if she found me attractive - which led to a yes. We made out a bit and I pulled her close to me so that we were able to get more physical. She wasn't from New York, I believe they were from somewhere in the midwest - I believe it was Arkansas.

My wingman was left in the dust, unfortunately his target was more into the security guard. I felt bad for him, but I know very well that sometimes nights just turn out that way - you just gotta roll with the punches.

So we stayed at the pool hall til closing, I went home with my girl and the security went home with the other. It was a pretty easy escalation, we made out in the taxi on the way home. Once we got back to my place she took off her clothes and I took off mine. We were both very turned on by each other and just went to town.

Afterwards, she left on her own and got a cab back to her hotel. She didn't ask for me to walk her to the corner to grab a cab or anything - which was a relief. It was a very cordial goodbye and I passed out shortly after she left. I never even bothered to grab her phone number as well.

She was pretty attractive, but I don't see myself taking a vacation to Arkansas anytime soon. Especially considering there are plenty of women right here in the city.

I managed to get a pic for everyone also...

So that was a recent lay, hope everyone enjoyed reading this. Feel free to leave your own opinions, thoughts, experiences or feedback and thank again for reading!

-PUA Redsky
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thatfeel21

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Good writeup. SS needs way more of these instead of ppl always crying about race. Job well done sir.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Redzky strikes again. Good work lad.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheGambino

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Good job, approach, have fun, keep it light and chilling, worked well on attraction and comfort and closed the deal.
 
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