Early on, be omnipresent. Everything must remind her of you. If you disappear too soon you are not missed but forgotten. Later on, the point where a person misses you the most is between 3-4 weeks. Then their feelings start to fade. Doc Love said that if a person doesn't respond in 2 weeks, it's over. After I seduced my recent girl I took 6 days off. When I texted her again she responded saying "Let's meet right now".Law 16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor
I'm wondering, what's a good amount of time to be gone for? Days? Weeks? Months? Years!?!
Just looking for different perspectives.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Law 16 (48 laws of power)
- Thread starter wifehunter
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I don't aways agree with the good old doc. This is a good example. I've gone 90+ days, but we're both introverts so things process at a more meticulous rate. He'll also next quickly, too. Which, I don't agree with. Women are fuking slow! I always factor that intow the game. Fast women are likely, slvts.
(Chuckles) gave me a good chuckle
Games are for kids.
Honestly.. the amount of attention I give a woman (and the frequency of it) depends on her level of submission. A woman's level of submission is directly related to her level of interest/attraction. So naturally.. there is very little "guessing" or "analysis" when dealing with a woman who has high interest. Things are just fun, natural and easy AS THEY SHOULD BE. Sure, she will play the occasional game or create occasional drama to "test" you, but not that often if she is psychologically healthy.
As far as attention goes.. just reward good behavior and punish bad behavior. This means you invite women into your world when they act positive and kick them out when they act negative. The "relationship" is more the woman's problem than yours. Your only job is to get laid and initiate.. not to give too many f*cks about "the relationship" unless a woman has gone above and beyond to prove she is worth such emotional energy. Most women aren't.
Honestly.. the amount of attention I give a woman (and the frequency of it) depends on her level of submission. A woman's level of submission is directly related to her level of interest/attraction. So naturally.. there is very little "guessing" or "analysis" when dealing with a woman who has high interest. Things are just fun, natural and easy AS THEY SHOULD BE. Sure, she will play the occasional game or create occasional drama to "test" you, but not that often if she is psychologically healthy.
As far as attention goes.. just reward good behavior and punish bad behavior. This means you invite women into your world when they act positive and kick them out when they act negative. The "relationship" is more the woman's problem than yours. Your only job is to get laid and initiate.. not to give too many f*cks about "the relationship" unless a woman has gone above and beyond to prove she is worth such emotional energy. Most women aren't.