"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Laugh At Me N poke me with your sticks

Guitarfreakelite

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.... im not sure if u guys are aware of this but i'm an idot, me a dj in training pulled a compleatly AFC move. this moring reality slaped me in my face from a lil conversation with my ex. turns out that all the stuff i've bin saying to her best friend, me and her are close, she has bin telling my ex-gf back ... her gf gets mad, egnores me, and screws all chance of an my friendship zone escape and all chance of my friendship zone peroid. so now she hates me, never wants to see me ever again you konw the whole bit. ...

Now i look at my self and ask myself what the hell was i thinking?
did have something in my system that i didnt know about or someting? who is stupid enough to say crap about there girlfriend to her best friend and you close friend. (me) C that is the dis advantage to having the same circle of friends, even when you think they are helping you out, they are just scewing you over. they talk to each other, they try to play match maker and problem fixers and screw crap up, every one knows your bussiness, too many people get involved and when you break up so dose your social circle, take it from me.. lol.. im an idot.

my lesson: carefull what you say and who you say it around.
She may not love me but, i know her bestfriend will :)
Hope you leand something i did, feel free to laugh at me. cus im laughing at myself. :)
hate to be a post tool, but i had to put this one up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CoRVeTTe6699

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yeah u cant talk to your girlfriends best friend.. girls gossip..but whats even worse is when your guy friends gossip to your g/f... i dropped all of them and made new friends
 

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Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
.... im not sure if u guys are aware of this but i'm an idot,
I think we had our suspicions...
 

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hahaha
sucks for u man. Why do u even want to be friends with your ex though?
I refrain from talking abotu other girls with a girl, especially if ti smy ex..and even mroe if tis her best friend.
You don't NEED female friends. Sure they are fun at times, but don't get your panties in a knot over them.
 

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Re: Re: Laugh At Me N poke me with your sticks

Originally posted by blienk
I think we had our suspicions...
WHOA, you two blienk?

Your posts hurt to read.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Re: Re: Re: Laugh At Me N poke me with your sticks

Originally posted by Porky
WHOA, you two blienk?

Your posts hurt to read.

Uhhhh...What's the message here?
 

Porky

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The second sentence was directed towards Guitar.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Laugh At Me N poke me with your sticks

Originally posted by Porky
WHOA, you two blienk?

Your posts hurt to read.
I read that first sentence and my mouse clicked quote before I could even think about it lol.
 

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Originally posted by Guitarfreakelite
I think you should use all that fantablous advice you posted* when you first got here.

*spammed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JSH

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lol
 

paraguayandj

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hahahahaha lol:D
 
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