"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Latina Singer needs IT help :)

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Hey just had a single date with this latina..and since she is not much of an intellectual person so I ket the convo in fun level and a bit of teasing as well...she asked me where do I say..I told her hey dont even think of that..I stay 30 kms away and no woemn are allowed in my place..sort this kind of convo..

now she stayes in the hotel where she sings..now she has a problem with laptop and aksed me to kind of help her out..I said we can try in her room..she said yes...am going to her oom in a while now.

Now DJs of course I wanna help her but in the process wanna help her panties to drop as well..know what i mean..how to pull this off...I just dont wanna be a nice guy working on her laptop and then after finishe she thanks me and bye bye.

What game should I pull of now..please help asap..have a few hours left...any ideas???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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make it seem like she is trying to get into ur pants. Use some kino, pretend that the laptops not broken and she tricked u to come to her room. It should be pretty easy to see if your getting anything tonight + fixing a laptop, or going home + without wasting ur time fixing a laptop. It all works out take a chance before u fix anything, take ur reward first man. Back in Hs i failed big time, when a girl asked me to fix her computer because it had a virus on it. What did i do? i gave her a antivirus cd and told her how to install, but what she really wanted is for me to come over to fcuk her brains out. She never spoke to me again after i gave her the cd..... so make sure u get something out of this and use it as ur advantage.
 
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Ok nerd!!! She has interest in you to fix her shyt!! What makes you think otherwise?? Did you set the stage for otherwise?
 

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Tenzen said:
Use some kino, pretend that the laptops not broken and she tricked u to come to her room. .
Yes, this sounds about right. Have fun :)
 

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well sorry yes I skipped some background..I am a regular where she sings and we have been eyeing each other for long and she took my mobile number and typed her number on it. Recently she opened upto me that she broke up with her bf and so after a week I asked her out and we met for coffee..so lets assume that we found eachther attarctive and cliked on the first date...so I know frm her pupil and kino that she has the hots for me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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And you are going to give her the screws correct?

In hindsight was there any need for this thread?
 
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