Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I'm a junior in high school and there is this Latin freshman chic in my spanish class and she is cute. I am white but i was born in Russia! I'm thinking about going out with her but here is my problem: I don't know if I'll be able to do it.
My school is like 40% hispanics and they sort of stick together and don't make friends with the whites very much. She has no white friends. How can i connect to her? I might be able to use this though: we were talking once yesterday and she said that i should make spanish-speaking friends so that i can learn spanish better. I could ask her to be my spanish-speaking friend and go from there. How can i overcome the barrier? any suggestions please. I need some really soon too.
Thank You!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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alex: help i'm gonna flunk outta spanish!
tits: what do you want me to do about it?
alex: tutor me! i'd do anything! just dont try to hanky panky me while we're studying, this is business!

then get her number set shiit up etc. real easy if you can drive
 

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Say this:

Suavemente, besame
que quiero sentir tus labios
besandome otra vez.

After that, you're set.
 

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Smoothly, you kiss me that I want to feel your lips kissing me again.

Crappy translation I guess. I just used freetranslation.com.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DO NOT SAY THOSE CHEESY ESPANYOL LINES

it will make you look cheesy and stupid

girls will like you for who you are

im sure that latina would like you for who you are right? then don't treat her differently from your other 'white friends'

there are no 'different games' when approaching women from different cultural/racial backgrounds...all women have pair of breasts and a vagina
 

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if I was you,I would stick with the whitegirls,see hispanic girls don't like us whiteguys,they only hispanic guys.Just like blackgirls dont like us whiteguys they only like blackguys.These latin girl will probaly reject you,and those latin guys in school,will beat u up,since ur white,dude trust me forget about her!
 

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Age of Alex, color or culture doesnt matter. Shes still a girl and will respond the same way as any other girl. Im doing the samething right now. Dreamx has it kind of right however most of those stereotypes are from the ugly chicks. You could say Im in the prep group and going out of that bubble is usually looked downed upon by most of my friends....but thats the essence of a DJ no caring what the AFC society believes is right. Anyway what I like to do at school is make eye contact say hi chat abit...then work your way up using all your skills and after a few days of talking at school ask to hang out. Eye contact, confident smile, conversation. Dont worry about her peers your dating her not them.
 

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Plenty of Mexican and black girls like white guys. Actually, one of the few girls who has ever directly asked me out was a black girl, so you guys are really only looking at the obnoxious ones and not noticing the ones that are perfectly normal. Every race/ethnicity has plenty of *******s...it's best not to focus on them when judging an entire group.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Real Ice Man said:
Plenty of Mexican and black girls like white guys. Actually, one of the few girls who has ever directly asked me out was a black girl, so you guys are really only looking at the obnoxious ones and not noticing the ones that are perfectly normal. Every race/ethnicity has plenty of *******s...it's best not to focus on them when judging an entire group.
mexican girls arent usually half as hot as...cubans. sculpted bodys, nice asses and perky tits, usually with a beautiful face.

ahgod.
 

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dreamx said:
if I was you,I would stick with the whitegirls,see hispanic girls don't like us whiteguys,they only hispanic guys.Just like blackgirls dont like us whiteguys they only like blackguys.These latin girl will probaly reject you,and those latin guys in school,will beat u up,since ur white,dude trust me forget about her!
Dreamx, the reason guys beat you up isn't because you're white, it's because you're a geek who has no life.
 

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latinas are pretty easy, but that might be because I am latin myself. do not memorize those spanish song lyrics. They are from a salsa song, and if you use them, you need to know the song and how to dance salsa(and I don't mean the souce).

just be who you are, and be friendly with her. It really doesn't matter whether you are cursed to be a white man or not. Not all people are as lucky as some latins...lol
 

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Being white definately isn't a curse though. I love it and I have no respect for other white people who try to imitate other races.
 

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I agree with you TheRealIceman I hate other whitepeople who try to be other races.I hate whitepeople who try to act black,they are "wiggas",its like annoying there trying to be something there not,look you guys blacks are the one who use slang,there ghetto,thuggish type,loud,****y.But us whitepeople are the smart ones,educated,classy.These post goes to you wiggers,who try to be black,well your not black,your white,like me,and its something to be proud of it!:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I do got a quick question for you blacks&latinos how are you guys naturaly confident,and I see you guys getting all the girls,Its no fair,it puts us whiteguys down.I mean I'm not gonna lie but blacks&latinos do get more girls then us whiteguys,but atleast we are educated!
 

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I would just go for it man. Maybe she likes you just as well.:)
 

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dreamx said:
I mean I'm not gonna lie but blacks&latinos do get more girls then us whiteguys,but atleast we are educated!
dreamx... dont be racist, im white... but you being racist - i aint feeling that:down:

Plus, according to you man, i must be a wigga, cos I dress in a different way? so im loud, annoying etc??
The way i dress doesnt affect me - stop being so stereotypical dreamx and meet these ppl for real...

Plus, the wigga be gettin more girls than your ass, bro :rock:
 

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dreamx said:
I do got a quick question for you blacks&latinos how are you guys naturaly confident,and I see you guys getting all the girls,Its no fair,it puts us whiteguys down.I mean I'm not gonna lie but blacks&latinos do get more girls then us whiteguys,but atleast we are educated!
Wow, are you retarded or something? I'm white too, but being racist definitely is not cool. You are now officially the least coolest kid I know.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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