"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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diplomatic_lie

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Hey which is the more popular form of dance amongst younger people (guys/girls in their 20s), tango, salsa, or something else?

I'm thinking of signing up for my college dance club, but theres different clubs for each dance thingy, and I'm not sure which one to sign up with. Anyone got any ideas?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tactic

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try squaredancing
 

TheSplat

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Most dancing early 20 year olds do is just grinding crotches together. It's incredibly easy and fun. But if you want to impress the ladies throw in a few of your own dance moves. I learned to salsa while in Costa Rica recently and the chicks love it.
 

sfalexi

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Salsa seems to be more widespread in club environments. I'd do that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CLOONEY

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Salsa, DAMN chicas who does this look fine! But the guys look like poofz! I cant say I would ever master it, but then again, I am sure it will let u meet many many beautiful woman who really know how to shake their bon bon!
 
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