"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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diplomatic_lie

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Hey which is the more popular form of dance amongst younger people (guys/girls in their 20s), tango, salsa, or something else?

I'm thinking of signing up for my college dance club, but theres different clubs for each dance thingy, and I'm not sure which one to sign up with. Anyone got any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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try squaredancing
 
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Most dancing early 20 year olds do is just grinding crotches together. It's incredibly easy and fun. But if you want to impress the ladies throw in a few of your own dance moves. I learned to salsa while in Costa Rica recently and the chicks love it.
 
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Salsa seems to be more widespread in club environments. I'd do that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Salsa, DAMN chicas who does this look fine! But the guys look like poofz! I cant say I would ever master it, but then again, I am sure it will let u meet many many beautiful woman who really know how to shake their bon bon!
 
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