"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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late bloomers -less likely to cheat and play games?

joe45

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i wonder about this and if anyone here nows-are late bloomer guys i mean late- 25 or around that age little older or younger yr old -no gf , nothing no kiss -and also shy guys -are they more likely not to cheat on their gf and be more faithful , stay with her longer and try to fix things out rather than leave or does it not make any differ. less likely to flirt and try out differ girls. maybe also date and then not phone bacl, play games -are late bloomers less likely to play games.

i wonder why some guys are late bloomers like what caused em to be like that-myself-my folks are very strict and i come from a very sheltered life.why are they so late. what can they do to make em change their behaviour.

anyone now of anybody like that-late bloomers.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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uzio

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I'm a "late bloomer" (a euphemism for a 'loser'?) and I intend to score as many women and girls as I can.

I'm recovering :p
 

El MonoLoco

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Nope late bloomer....like a lot of people here....want to play games...be the mack and score a lot....

It's like starving yourself then piggin out......

Eventually though you ease back to a comfortable spot and just chill.


Although if they don't know what they are doing, then yes a late bloomer will fall down the AFC hole and will have to pick himself up at a later time.


Go watch the 40 year old vigin and see how it deals with it....I still haven't seen it.....so you can tell me about it later.
 
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